(Closed) I am turning bridezilla and I am not happy with my day-of coordinator

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It honestly doesn’t sound as though you’re going to need her there, and if you feel okay with cancelling her services (and the contract says how much you’ll have to pay if you cancel), then I think go for it. It may just end up confusing things if you have two coordinators on the day

Post # 4
1715 posts
Bumble bee

Yeah I’d just cancel her contract.

Post # 5
37 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

I think you are way off base as far as thinking she is being unreasonable for charging you for the extra hour.  You should know what’s in your contract, and her title is day of coordinator. Maybe she could have gently reminded you, but I think you are definitely in the wrong for expecting you don’t need to pay her for that time.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with cancelling (and then you are out the 50%) anyway.

In the alternative, if you decide to keep her, you could try to very sweetly apologize, tell her that you didn’t realize that there was an extra charge, and you promise not to use her services excessively from this point on, but would she consider waiving the $100 fee (but don’t mention her just sitting there).

Good luck!

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