(Closed) I beg for your advice

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3776 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

You changed your number because you were upset?

 

Post # 5
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

wow, i don’t know where to start. first of all take a deep breath, second of all you should not have changed your phone number. You’re married already to this man, and he won’t call you back? Please explain more. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Are you ok with being with a man who wont even stand up for you and your wedding ideas? We had issues at first with him and his family and how they talked about me and treated me. Honestly had it not changed I dont if I could have spent the rest of my life with him. Can you calm down enough to write him a letter maybe and have someone deliver it to him by hand for you? These are issues you really need to resolve. You are important and your wedding should not only be a dress and someone elses dreams and ideas. Also maybe look into mediation or a couples therapist and see if you too would be able to get in on short notice if he chooses to agree. 

Post # 7
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491 posts
Helper bee

Why not go to his house and talk to him?

Post # 8
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

yeah I think you should just show up and talk to him. If he is not there wait for him. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

i guess I am not following…I am super confused. Cant you just go talk to him? Could you please expnlain the situation more and then we can try adn help 😀

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

Go wherever he is, or you think he might be, and apologize.  When y’all are calmer, you need to talk about the fact that you will not tolerate such treatment from his family.  They are most likely going to hate you for some time for this.  That is just the truth of the matter.  You need to find him and tell him that you love him, need him, and will never act like that again.  Tell him you want him forever and that he means everything to you then hope he feels that way too.

Post # 11
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@Jayparadise:  go find your husband and talk with him now 😀 Good luck!

Post # 12
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry but this sounds like some shit that would happen in middle school. He is your f*ing husband go talk to him.  This is ridiculous. 

Post # 13
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

im confused…

you were legally married 2 weeks ago, was sitting down with his sisters to go through a wedding plan and they didnt like any of your ideas. they started yelling, he did nothing, you took your rings off and walked out and you havent spoken to your husband since and you have now changed your phone number?

who long have you known him and do you know where he is/his familys address?

Post # 15
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m totally lost.

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