I bought too many wedding bands and can't choose!

posted 1 month ago in Rings
  • poll: Two bands or three? See photos in post.
    Go for all three bands! (Plain band, diamond band and engagement ring) : (43 votes)
    61 %
    Two bands! Diamond band and engagement ring on a daily basis, plain band for lazy days/travel. : (24 votes)
    34 %
    Other, explain. : (4 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 2
    3740 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I love the stack! So many more options to play with!

    Post # 3
    1483 posts
    Bumble bee

    Go with the single gold band.   Classics are classic for a reason.

    Post # 4
    232 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    I voted for other because…. just wear whatever you want when you feel like it, I would keep them both and wear it as a stack or wear one band or the other or just the bands without the Ering… you don’t have to be designated to wearing it a certain way all the time! 🙂

    Post # 5
    546 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2018 - Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles at Beverly Hills

    If it’s in your budget to keep both, do it! I love the stack, but you can wear it all different ways and switch it up to a single gold band, or just the engagement ring and pave band, etc depending on what you feel like. 

    Post # 6
    371 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    The stack is fab, and either wedding band alone will be lovely for different reasons/activities. Keep them both! 

    Post # 7
    175 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2019

    All three look great together. You can mix and match…maybe for every day stuff you go through a phase of just wanting the diamond bad rather than the plain band. You have options and nothing is written in stone.

    Post # 8
    880 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    dianaj17 :  I would keep both but use the plain band when you get married and keep the diamond band aside until your 1 year anniversary. Something to look forward to and for your first year of being married you have the classic plain band. 

    Post # 10
    361 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    dianaj17 :  My favourite look was all three together! I do love your e-ring and the diamond band together too, I agree that the e-ring and plain band arent sitting quite right together on their own but I think all three rings together make a really nice stack Xx 

    Post # 11
    408 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2019

    I love the solitaire with the eternity band, as that’s the look I’ll be rocking, too! Mine is a 3/4 eternity band and I also got it for a good deal on Etsy. I also thought about getting a plain band to wear but the one I ordered from Etsy I didn’t like, so I returned it. I ended up getting a silicone band that I can wear while hiking, etc.

    Post # 13
    11 posts
    • Wedding: May 2020

    I’m in a similar boat!  I have a solitaire engagement ring and am torn between a simple plain band, or a thin pace diamond band.  Weighing tradition and practicality against my unexpected draw to the way the diamond band looks with and without the engagement ring. It’s a hard decision! Good luck!  

    Post # 14
    75 posts
    Worker bee

    I also bought 2 wedding bands before my wedding with the intention of stacking all 3 but nowadays pick one to wear with my engagement ring depending on my mood. I love having that option and now want more bands lol. I used the diamond band during my ceremony but figured the band isn’t what makes me married so it doesn’t really matter to me which one I decide to wear with my engagement ring. All my rings come off soon as I get home though because I baby them! 



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    Post # 15
    318 posts
    Helper bee

    I’d do plain band for wedding ring, and wear the eternity when you feel fancy. I don’t like eternity bands for daily wear but I’m also just a fan of a plain wedding band that never leaves your finger!

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