(Closed) I bought you a bite of my cookie. You're welcome! :D

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 33
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1747 posts
Bumble bee

@Junip3r:  Seriously? You’re pissed off about a chocolate bunny? What are you really upset about? Obviously, a chocolate bunny “gift” is not anything to think twice about.

Post # 34
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@Junip3r:  Well, I figured this was sort of a “final straw” and that there’s no way you’d “overreact” to something.  I agree with you – it was weird.

Post # 35
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

This reminds me of my Easter candy experience. FH, his brother, sis in law, their kid and I were at his moms house. There was a huge basket on the table full of about 7 chocolate bunnies and 15 large chocolate eggs. This wasn’t any persons basket in particular, more of a ‘help yourself’ centerpiece. As we were leaving Mother-In-Law tells us to take some chocolate, and I mentioned I didn’t want any, but thanks. So, FH reaches in for a bunny for himself. At which point his brother very adamantly says “bunnies are for couples, and the eggs are for one person. If you don’t want any then he can only have an egg” And he really meant this, and was extremely upset when FH took a bunny anyway. It’s not like the was any chocolate shortage in that house!

Post # 37
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Bumble bee

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@Junip3r:  I did read all of the comments and it all sounds silly. I don’t know adults that get upset over a chocolate bunny. 

Post # 38
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@Junip3r:  LOL I think your Mother-In-Law is weird. 

Post # 39
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@Junip3r:  I totally get you. It’s weird and self-serving to present something like this as a “gift.” She should’ve just said, hey, we’ve got way more bunny than we can eat, please take some. 

Post # 40
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Junip3r:  I agree that the situation is weird but I think that your original post is not as clear regarding your MIL’s behavior towards gift giving as you may have thought it was, which is obviously the point you were trying to make. 

Can you give us another expample of how she’s acted when giving a gift that might be more clear?

Side Note: I also have a FStepMIL who will do something nice but not out-of this world generous and then expect you to thank her as though she gave you a kidney. Unfortunately, I just have to deal and try not to accept anything from her so I don’t ever have to give her one of my kidneys LOL 😉

Post # 43
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lol, overthinking this one for sure.

Step back… read the post with your “I am not involved… outsider glasses on”… and I think you’ll see how innocent the situation (really a 600 gram Easter Bunny) is… and how ridiculous you sound in light of all that.

Let it go.  Enjoy the chocolate

(lol unless I am missing something, and you are certifiable chocolaholic who is peeved that you’ve been cheated out of a 100 grams of silky goodness … in which case… honey you need a Rabbit-ReHab Program)

😀 *Big Grin*

 

Post # 44
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Girl you are over reacting its a big ass chocolate bunny that you wouldn’t eat anyway, who cares. It was a funny gag gift.

Post # 45
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

OP – you should close this thread.  No one gets it and I think you’re going to get frustrated.  I get what you’re saying, but I can see other people do not.  Sorry :/

I would NEVER bring a pie to someone’s house as a gift and then say, “Ok, the pie is 600 grams and there’s 3 couples, please measure exactly 200 grams for me to take home.”  Uhm, what????  That’s ridiculous.  I brought myself a pie and disguised it as a gift to the person hosting me.  Maybe that’s a better example of what’s going on here so other people can get where you’re coming from. 

Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

LOL! Her gift giving skills are a bit crazy. I just want to know how did she present the 200g to you? Was it just random chopped up chunks, or was it still in semi bunny form? Haha. I think she should have just opted for individual gifts.

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