Post # 1
My ex and I talked last night and I broke things off. I am a bit surprised that I’m not upset about it. I guess after what we’ve been going through the last few months he made it easier for me. I feel a bit of relief that I don’t have to put up with him anymore…I don’t think I want to date again…ever. Thanks for letting me vent Bees these past few months, your words and advice were really appreciated. I guess I won’t be around much anymore since this forum is about marriage/relationships and neither applies to me anymore…
Post # 3
We’ll still love you! I’m sorry things didnt work out, but it’s for the best. We just want you to be happy!
Post # 4
I’m sorry you have to deal with this!
But thank GOODNESS you are out of that mess!
And good luck with whatever you decide to do next!
Post # 5
I think the bee is a lot more than just weddings & relationships – so don’t feel like you have to go unless it’s too uncomfortable to stay.
I’m glad you’re happy with your decision regarding SO. Wish you all the best! xo
Post # 6
Since I’m new around here, I don’t know much about your situation, but good for you for making a decision that’s best for you. Good luck with whatever life brings you on your new journey!
Post # 7
I’m sorry you have to go through this, but now you’re free to find someone who deserves you and knows how great you are! Feel free to stick around 🙂
Post # 8
@MrsWe: I’m not upset about it. you obviously did the right thing.
good luck with everything.
Post # 9
@MrsWe: I literally just gasped and then smiled. I know it’s really hard and you’re probably going to have a lot of different emotions, but I think you made SUCH a good decision.
Know that you STILL have support. We’re here if you want us! Your life is going to open up and be so fulfilling. I had a series of disappointing relationships and took a break… it was amazing for me. It’s always 100% better to be alone and able to be yourself than be with someone who wants you to be someone you’re not and do things that you aren’t comfortable with.
Post # 10
When you feel like a weight was lifted off your shoulders, it was the right thing to do.
Post # 11
awwwww! sorry things didn’t work out <3
Post # 12
@MrsWe: Oh honey! -hugs- We are here for you, the bees are all about support and love, at least that’s what I’ve found. Let us know if we can help, we have a community here.
Post # 13
Thank you ALL for the kind words. I feel good knowing I gave my best and stood my ground. He has no problem telling me the things that aren’t ideal about me but he couldn’t even give me any examples of how he’s been a good boyfriend, the one thing he came up with was “I put a new faucet in your kitchen”, I wanted to laugh in his face and say “Yeah, after a year of being together that’s all you can think of too, huh?”…smh. After I FINALLY realized a future with him was not going to be a good one and pretty much one sided I had no problem ending things with him.
Post # 14
When you can go to bed at the end of the day with no regrets, you’ve definitely made the right decision. A big mistake is people who patch things up and live in the moment, well that’s not reality…reality is longevity and future…spending every waking moment with that person…you will find Mr. Right you have a great head on your shoulders.
Post # 15
I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this but from reading your posts, I think you have SO made the right decision! Life is too short to waste in the company of the wrong people and for sure, this guy would have been a nightmare to be married to. Onwards and upwards and the very best of luck!
Post # 16
@MrsWe: I know we’re all just strangers on the internet, but I am really just so proud of you for making this choice for yourself! Here’s to a happier future!