(Closed) I broke up with my fiance and now I’m back with my ex LONG

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 152
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Well, I have had a terrible engagement.  I’m just glad that someone found happiness despite the chaos.  I wish Pink Bubbalicious and the  new fiance the best 🙂

Post # 153
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@Ms. Fox:Haha, thanks. I going to point out that I talk like that.

Post # 154
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Blushing bee

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@helenberrycrunch: Not trying to offend you. =)  It’s just a regional thing I’ve noticed.

Post # 155
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@Ms. Fox: I am less than offended. Would say that  I live in a one-horse town, except I’d be willing to bet that livestock outnumber people.

Post # 156
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Sugar bee

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@helenberrycrunch: Bwwuuuaaahhaahhaaa! That cracked me up. Sometimes when I’m crowded into a train or walking down Fifth Avenue during rush hour, I feel like we are all cattle!

Post # 157
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

 I admire people who can end engagements that just aren’t going to work, I don’t admire this situation. Engagement hopping rarely results in an positive outcome. I don’t believe either of these people should have stayed with their exes, but I think they should wait a year and then move forward with the marriage. Most people change in five years. The new fiance isn’t the same person she dated in high school.

 But, to each his own. I can’t say I blame your friends and family for being concerned with the erratic behavior.

Post # 158
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t have shit to say other than every time I see a long thread like this with various arguments and the OP has less than 20 posts, I immediately think TROLL TROLL TROLL it’s like a little alarm dinging away in my head.  Some chick just came on to stir up drama with a story about how she’s like, the most insensitive person alive. 

Post # 159
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@Meealissa: I think we all hope you’re right.

Post # 160
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@Meealissa: Totally agree.  If this is real, then it’s ridiculous.  If it’s a troll back from the dead, then it’s a pale, pale imitation of pot roast. lol

Post # 161
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Blushing bee

Just add 25 year-old female engagement hopper to his list.

Post # 162
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Wow! Aren’t we done with this yet? Jeez! Come on people, let’s get outta here…. *turns off lights on the way out*

Post # 163
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I just finished reading this entire thread and the OP’s life sounds like a crazy romance novel or something.  Real life does’nt work like this and I’m worried you are in for quite a shock when the shit hits the fan.

I commend you for having the strength to end end an engagement that you knew wasn’t right.  But jumping into a new marriage immeadiately also isn’t right.  You hardly spoken to this guy since HS – you don’t even know what kind of person he is now.  Date, live together, re-learn about one another and if it is meant to be, get married in 6 months, in a year (April 29, 2012 anyone?).  Getting married in a month (and a day before your previous wedding at that) is just wrong and hurtful.

Post # 164
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

While I do agree w/ your family that you are rusing into marriage, you absolutely did the right thing. Ended your engagements before marriage is the best thing to do in this situation. Personally, I don’t think your should re-arrange your life because of your exes, regardless if you marry the day before/after your old wedding date – the whole break up still hurts. Again, while I do agree that this date is too soon, I commend you for being honest and not entering a marriage that would of prob ended in divorce.

Post # 165
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@pink.sequins:

Oh.Em.Gee. This thread really blew up since I checked in last night! Again, OP seems to have gone missing. Hmmm, maybe she’s working…?

Post # 166
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Bumble bee

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@Cash000: You’re right. How dare I?? OP can do whatever she desires. Maybe she should just keep her original date and wedding and just switch out the groom! That way everyone can see how rash and finicky she is first hand! And then they’ll know she truly loves AndrewJackson or JacksonAndrew or whoever she’s living with next week. Great fucking idea.

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