(Closed) i brought it up again.. oops

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah- follow Mr. Bee’s plan, keep busy. He gave you a timeline— it could be any time soon. Don’t fret!

Post # 5
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

For sure.  I know it’s tough, but just try to remember his point of view even as it gets harder over the next few weeks, months, whatever.  In the long run, you’ll both be so much happier if you let him do it his way.  And you won’t regret backing off for the last few months.  Could be sooner than you think!  You know he’s going to propose soon, and just focus on that.  You have a man who loves you enough to want to propose to you.  That’s a beautiful thing!

Post # 7
786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I can totally relate.. My boyfriend and I have the exact same arguments as you and it ends up the same way..  The more we bug them, the more it pushes them away from doing it..  Because like he says, now he can’t ask in the next little while because he will feel like was forced into it or that it wouldn’t be a surprise..  He doesn’t want to feel pressured and do it when he wants..  Not when we are expecting it.  Honestly I would feel guilty if we had a huge fight and the next day he gave me a ring to “make me happy”.

But I’m glad he gave you a time line which is great! 🙂  That’s why I’m still doing the Valentines Day challenge to give him some breathing room because like you said, you want it to be authentic right?

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