I. called it off Long Post

posted 5 months ago in 30 Something
Post # 16
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

Oh wow, that’s just horrible!

This really sucks and I’m sorry for you. The thing is, that you’re the one going to raise from that situation and despite all of the shit he pulled off, he can’t take away anything from the things you worked so hard for. And he’s just going to be what he’s been all along: a loser.

Try to look at it this way; you’ve gotten the chance to do so much better and for the next time, you know better than to fall for some jerk again.

Hugs to you!

Post # 17
400 posts
Helper bee

mimivac :  Not every woman, but most women do want to and plan to have kids. Its just better to think about those kinds of things while you’re thinking of settling down. Is he good enough for you? Maybe yes maybe not. But is he good enough to have children and raise a family with. Sometimes a woman will be willing to go through some crap for her man that she wouldnt want to if she thought about having a family with him.

As I said earlier, a good thought process will help separate the wheat from the chaff.


Post # 18
6657 posts
Bee Keeper

Better broken engagements than broken marriages. 

Take some time for you, to just focus on you and to build up your self-worth so that you don’t end up with a loser like this again. 




Post # 19
125 posts
Blushing bee

callmelately :  Only a moron would say “I’m only with you because you’re stable, you have a job, you’re buying your own home, you can let me live with you for free and I don’t need to work.”

Post # 21
6 posts
  • Wedding: Paris, France

I’m so sorry! Perhaps seeing a mental health professional to parse out your attraction issues? You do deserve better and I think figuring out why you are attracted to the type of man that does this may benefit you. 

callmelately :  

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