(Closed) I called off the wedding……sorry its long.. :(

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@anne B Good For You!!!!

There is no room for that kind of intimidation in a healthy relationship.

I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you!


Post # 4
2286 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I know this is supposed to suck and everything, but GOOD FOR YOU!!! You have an amazing attitude! It’s so awesome that you’ve stuck up for yourself. Huzzah for new fire and congrats for beating the BC!

Post # 6
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t understand. What is his problem with your photographer friend? Or Bridesmaid or Best Man choice?

Well, you sound very strong and determined and I’m very glad to hear your health is better. I guess it was the catalyst you needed to remember that you are number 1. I am sorry to hear that your relationship is over, but like I said, it sounds like you made the best choice and that you are “happy” with it, as  hard as it will be at first.

Post # 7
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

He should not be fighting you over something mundane as a Bridesmaid or Best Man choice. Getting married and having a life together is the most important issue, and if he is going to buck and fight every step of the way, then maybe this is for the best. It’s gonna be hard, but that’s what the Bee is for.

Post # 8
2605 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

*burts into applause*

Post # 9
7288 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Preach it!

Post # 10
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Mackinaw Valley Vineyard; Bloomington Center for the Performing Arts

Good for you for making a positive change in your life.  You sound like a very strong woman and I hope you find the happiness you deserve!

Post # 11
2191 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011


Congrats on beating BC and on finding a little bit of Fire! You don’t deserve to be treated that way!

Post # 12
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ah! I see! Well, loving your partner means being accepting of those they love. (Or at least respectful of those they love).

And threatening to call off a wedding is never a good game to play, because, well, he’s gotten his wish, now, hasn’t he!?

Wishing you future happiness and health!

Post # 13
767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh good for you!  It sounds like your Fiance (or ex-FI) is a bully and an intimidator.  I wish you all the strength in the world for the next few days!

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