(Closed) I can finally say it, now I just have to make it past it

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I liked that you said you are more together now then in June… I see that it has made you stronger, and although it hurts and is tough explaining to others your day will come and it will be beautiful and amazing and there will be no financial concern like this hanging over the beginning of your marriage. I think it was a good decision, one that you may have regretted not doing so good on you for being strong about the decision. Keep your head up, you still havbe a loving and caring man and once you set a new date and get things back on track you will feel great 🙂

Post # 4
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1306 posts
Bumble bee

You have such a great attitude!!  Glad you guys are happy and moving forward!

Post # 5
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1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Meeshmallow Agreed! + 1

Totally understand the need to get that off your chest at a place like the Bee. Hugs, I can imagine how you feel with the date looming, take comfort in knowing that it will happen when the time is right and its gonna be awesome!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

So he made you lose 6K because he didn’t want you paying for it yourself? I am sorry- but 6K isn’t anything to sneeze at in addition to losing the date you were looking forward to… could another solution have not been reached?
I don’t mean to say that without sympathy as I know this is hard on you (and him) but I just would have a hard time justifying losing 6K when him losing a job could happen when you are married. If you didn’t have the money to pay for it, then I could completely understand. But if you were able to pick up the load until he gets back on his feet, isn’t that the definition of what marriage is?

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