(Closed) I can’t be the only one….

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

What do you want ideas about?

Darling Husband had a a Groomsmen i was not and still am not keen about. You dont have to deal much with them so as long as it makes your Darling Husband happy thats all that matters. I was kind of the mind that if they dont mess up his Bachelor party, are there for Darling Husband and show up on the damn day in their suit i would be happy…. and i was!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My FH has two groomsmen that I don’t agree with. They don’t talk to him anymore.. like, he texts them and they never respond. He was even in the area where they both lived and tried to get a hold of them to meet up (he talked to them a week in advance and said they’d let him know if they could meet up and never did) and they avoided him and when he finally saw them, he saw them for literally 2 mins. One of them is even his bestman and it makes me so sad. My FH told me he doesn’t really know if he wants them in the wedding anymore, but is too afraid to say something to them about it.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Mrs.LloydDobler: no it doesnt sound selfish at all…i hands down didnt want him in the party but he was going to be at the wedding one way or another so i just dealt. He was super happy for Darling Husband and I, but he flaked out on the bachelor party (but ended up coming..i just knew all the drama he had caused) and at the wedding his wife sat and pouted the ENTIRE time…bc i had a head table…it was dumb

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@Mrs.LloydDobler: DH had a groomsmen who I do actually like but on the day of the wedding he only brought a navy blue suit (all suits were supposed to be black), refused to iron his shirt, and didnt even shave. It was just kind of disrespectful. Luckily one of DHs friends who came down to the wedding had a black suit so our Groomsmen was able to wear it.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

One of them won’t look at me or speak to me and told Fiance he would be doing him a favor if he got me to not marry him. It’s looking like he might not be in it because he’s refusing to wear a suit anyway.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@Mrs.LloydDobler: Well luckily I didnt know about the suit thing until the day after the wedding! Darling Husband was pretty annoyed with him though because apparently Darling Husband asked him to iron his shirt and shave and he actually said no! I didnt even notice that his shirt wasnt ironed and that he was scruffy…I was in my own blissful world!

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I realllllly dislike one of them, but luckily I love the other three. I’m just cordial to that  *one* because he’s one of FI’s long-time friends, so I figure I’m not getting rid of him any time soon. He’s really awkward and depressing sometimes — he’s the only single one in our “group” and he’s the oldest…

Matter of fact, this past weekend he came up here with FI’s brother and brother’s Girlfriend as the fifth wheel and made it totally awkward. He kept making disparaging comments about “oh well I’ll just go be by my lonesome” or “I feel out of place with two couples.” Um. Dude. You invited YOURSELF to OUR apartment. No one made you be the fifth wheel. We had to forego some fun couple activities because he’s so damn ridiculous. :/ I’m sure this will happen more in the process, but hopefully he’ll get a clue…or a girlfriend to distract him. haha.

Post # 12
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373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Mrs.LloydDobler:I’m lucky because my fiance and I grew up together (so we have the same friends) but as much as it sucks I think its up to you now to try and put it past you. This is his special day, too. He should have his first choices stand by him.

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