Post # 1
I need your help… I have 3 really close friends (2 are local and 1 is out of state).
The (2) that are local I knew since Elementary and the Out of State fren, since Middle School. We’re SISTERS!!!
I cant decide to choose between them for a Maid/Matron of Honor… do you think its a cop out if I just ask them all to be my bridesmaids and have no MOH? I dont want to hurt anyones feelings….
Post # 3
Is there one you talk to everyday? Who is the one you call first when something major happens? That is how I chose, but I also think it’s ok not to have a Maid/Matron of Honor.
Post # 4
- Wedding: March 2011 - The Viceroy
I was in a wedding where there was no Maid/Matron of Honor, just 7 bridesmaids. It worked out great. We all planned the bachelorette and we gave a group speech/toast. It helped that many of us knew each other and were friends ourselves. Do whatever is right for you!
Post # 5
Do the old oragami thing, write down numbers and the names underneath, just kidding. You can not have an Maid/Matron of Honor..I don’t know if I will be having one myself. I first picked my niece but after some thought I am not sure if I want her as my Maid/Matron of Honor. Guess I shouldn’t recant but I want to a bit, lol. It’s like de-gifting..idk..ugh weddings, good thing it’s only once! lol.
Post # 6
I wouldn’t think twice about it as a guest or a Bridesmaid or Best Man. Just be sure to let them know how excited you are to have your three best friends by your side!
Post # 7
We are just having 4 bridesmaids and 4 best men
Post # 8
I would say that its fine not to have a Maid/Matron of Honor… plus maybe they might appreciate that you love them all enough not to choose one over the other… good luck
Post # 9
I think it’s perfectly fine to just have them all be the bridesmaids with no favorite. If you don’t have a sister, cousin, Future Sister-In-Law or anyone who’s family then it seems okay! Just make sure they all know that. I’d put them in height order at the ceremony to not hurt any feelings.
Post # 10
no Maid/Matron of Honor sounds like the way to go. i think they’ll appreciate that you didn’t want to play favorites.
Post # 11
Thank you so much for your input and suggestions. It has really put my mind at ease =)