(Closed) I can't decide…HELP!

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which dresses should I choose for my maids?
    Top Row - Mori Lee : (36 votes)
    73 %
    Bottom Row - Alfred Sung : (13 votes)
    27 %
    None, keep looking : (0 votes)
    None, I have a good suggestion : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    111 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    @MsGinkgo:  When you say they’re split as to what they like, do you mean you narrowed it down to a couple choices and half like one option, half like the other? I think what’s most important is for you to determine what your preference is, first. Identify two or so dresses (that are the color and style you like) that you know you would be happy with and go from there. It’s your wedding, your big day, your photos. Your friends and family should respect what your preference is.

    I was in a wedding three years ago and did not care for the dress (not the color, neckline, style… anything). But I never said a word because I knew it wasn’t my opinion that mattered and the wedding was still beautiful, even if I didn’t love how I looked.

    Don’t stress yourself out- go with your gut and what you love (even if you say you don’t care…which I assume means you don’t have a strong opinion). Don’t worry about who will be upset with your choice. It’s YOUR CHOICE. Do what makes you happy.

    Post # 4
    4780 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    post pics and let the hive decide by a poll 🙂

    Post # 5
    1227 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @MsGinkgo:  Make it a democracy. Narrow the choices down to 2 or 3, and have them vote. Do you have enough bridesmaid for this? Lol

    That way, whatever happens, it’s no one’s fault

    Post # 8
    9557 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Between the two, I’d pick the Alfred Angel. But it would probably be easier on everyone involved to just let th pick from both lines. I think they go together well!

    Post # 9
    45534 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @MsGinkgo:  Are any of your girls large busted? The Mori Lee is the only one that offers an opportunity to wear a supportive bra.

    Post # 10
    4780 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @MsGinkgo:  ooo fun

    @JenGirl:  yeah I agree that they could go together.

    Post # 12
    1303 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I would be much more likely to wear the Mori Lee dresses again, plus the material won’t show wrinkles.

    Post # 13
    346 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    My BMs tried on some of the Alfred Sung and the fit and fabric is very strange. I did not like them at all and felt they were not wearable again or flattering. They just looked so stiff in person.

    Post # 14
    3748 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I vote to let them choose from both!

    Post # 15
    6 posts
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I think if it’s possible, the bridesmaids need to try them on and then you can see which style suits all their different heights and figure types. One particular dress might stand out from doing that.

    Post # 16
    93 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I love the look of the top row – lace is so pretty and elegant!

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