(Closed) I can't find my rings : (

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2007 - City, State

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SnowInApril:  I think I would call her and ask. say you placed the rings there and they’re gone! First id tell you’d husband to make sure he isn’t holding them. If not, I’d ask the cleaning lady. I mean if you’re 100% positive you put them there and your hubby didn’t take them, than it has to be the cleaning lady.. If it is, I’d cancel her cleaning my place and change my locks immediately!! 

Post # 3
6296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would call her and ask if she saw them… don’t accuse her or anything, just say, “I swear I left them in that box!”

I really hope you find them.  Please keep us posted!

Post # 4
2921 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Call and ask!! I would do it this second. 

Post # 5
8517 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

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SeaOfLove:  Yeah, this. I wouldn’t go about accusing her, but definitely ask about it. And tell your husband.

Post # 6
3951 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If you don’t want to accuse her outright, you can mention that they’re missing and ask her if she “happened to see them anywhere while cleaning” first…

Post # 7
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would call her without accusing her. Just say where you keep them and ask if she happen to see them. Let her know they were there the night before and gone the next day and you are just trying to retrace your steps. 

I tell your husband. Its not your fault if they were stolen. Just explain the situation. Unless you constantly lose things and he gets mad about that I cant imagine he will be mad. 

Post # 8
3954 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Call the cleaning lady and ask, but why on earth can’t you tell your husband? Maybe he has some ideas where to look. And in the future, don’t take those puppies off your finger!

Post # 9
2067 posts
Buzzing bee

Sounds like you looked pretty hard but I would retrace your steps again, such as, are you sure you didn’t forget and put them in your purse again to work out, or leave them where you cleaned them? In a cleaner, by the sink, on the floor, in the shower, etc. Also, you should definately ask DH and the cleaning lady. The last time I was missing important jewelry, SO had put it in the medicine cabinet for me because I left it sitting by the sink and he didn’t want it getting knocked into the sink. I was in tears and it had just been not so helpfully moved for me!

Post # 10
782 posts
Busy bee

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SnowInApril:  First I’d tell your husband (maybe he took them to be cleaned as a present?) then if he doesn’t have them I’d call the cleaning lady and ask if she moved them.  I know our cleaning lady once put a tooth brush in a sock drawer :-/  If she said she didn’t move them I’d probably file a police report.

Post # 11
727 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2003

Maybe he moved them. Or maybe the cleaning lady moved them. I would ask them both and just see. And I would retrace those steps again. Sometimes I get so in a routine and misplace things because I am so certain that I left it where I normally do. I am sure none of that makes any sense. 

I do hope you find them. I know it’s such a helpless feeling. 

Post # 12
2221 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

Like others have said, call the cleaning lady and ask if she’s seen your rings because you thought you had put them in the box and they weren’t there when you looked. Ask if she might have seen them while she was cleaning?

Why are you so afraid of telling your husband? Your rings should be insured, so even if they were stolen you can get them replaced. He shouldn’t be mad at you.

Post # 13
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Check again everywhere!! The worse thing would be to accuse her and then find them. Tell him, I’m sorry. I know it will suck, my Fiance would be upset but he can help you look with a clearer mind. Also, what if he realized you had lost them and he purposedly took them to give you a lesson?

If between the two of you, you can’t find them, call her asking nicely. I’m not very religious anymore but my mom always says she’ll pray to a certain Saint when she can’t find something. In those helpless moments, I actually appreciate her praying for me. It’s silly but that’s the feeling I have right now. You’ll be in my thoughts and I hope you find them.

I thought I misplaced my ering when I went to visit my mom last summer. I had put it on her vanity before going to bed and the next day I couldn’t find them anywhere. It just so happens that she put something on top and they were concealed from my view. Those were 5-10 terrifying minutes…

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 9 months ago by MuseForever.
Post # 15
3799 posts
Honey bee

Im sorry , but she not going tell you if she stole them .  If you can’t find them at all tonight ,then you know . 

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