(Closed) I can't keep this secret any longer…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 286
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

So glad you spoke to someone and are making your way out of this toxic relationship.

Post # 287
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Worker bee

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creativeplannertobee :  Yes this is exactly what I was thinking. Make sure you have someone’s help (you made a great choice in telling your boss!) in case he is lying about when his flight is or he misses it or anything like that. Think of your safety from every angle. 

Post # 288
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Good job!!!

Post # 289
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: South Lodge. 2nd of Dec 2017

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worthlessbee :  ❤️ Been there, done it, it’s past and now my future is amazing !!  YOU GO GIRL, THIS PIC IS JUST FOR YOU XX take the next steps safely, knowing bees all over the world are supporting you xxx

Post # 290
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Sat and cried my way through every one of your updates. I can’t imagine the pain you have been through. And I am so so excited for the bright future ahead of you! I am praying with all my might for your safety. Please know you are worth so much more than this and life holds amazing things in store for you. Know your worth, Bee! Keep us updated. Holding you in my heart today! 

Post # 291
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Helper bee

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worthlessbee :  How amazing! So proud of you for doing this!!! Sending lots of prayers. 

Post # 292
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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worthlessbee :  So freaking proud of you.  Hope you can just keep things calm and “normal” until Monday!!!

Post # 293
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

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worthlessbee :  Somehow the pieces always fall in their right place like the universe is trying to tell you something, and I really believe now is your time to move. 

I pray everything goes well and I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself! Enough is enough! You are so strong and so much more than what he will ever deserve!

Keep us updated bee, I’m sending all my positive thoughts your way! 🙂 

Post # 294
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Helper bee

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worthlessbee :  God, I just want to hug you, VERY WORTHY bee! Like others, I cried reading your updates. Especially with your last one – except with happiness this time! I’m seriously so happy for you. Wish I could somehow do something for you, but I don’t suppose I can, from Australia!

My mother went through similar controlling, abusive shit in one of her marriages – and I am so, so, thankful she managed to leave. He too was focussed on tearing her down emotionally, controlling where she went, who with, and what she did with her body. He didn’t hurt her physically. Until one day he did.

Post # 295
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2018 - Pantagis Renaissance

He’s not worthy of you. LEAVE

Post # 296
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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worthlessbee :  I am so so so proud of you. I know this is scary. But you have so many people to support you. Not only in your real life but right here on the bee. I know sometimes it’s weird because we are a bunch of strangers who sometimes bicker and fight. But just know that the entire community is here standing behind you. We will do anything we can to support you. I have had you on my mind since I read your OP. You can do this, you are stronger than you know. I am so excited for you to find out what life has to offer once you get away from this abuse. It’s a whole new world I promise! So much love being sent your way bee! 

Post # 297
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Buzzing bee

So happy and relieved to read your latest updates. Though I don’t know you I am SO proud of you for what you are doing. Best of luck, Valuable Bee, and please continue giving us updates so we know you’re out and safe xo 

Post # 298
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

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worthlessbee :  WOW! You absolutely ROCK! I’m so proud of and happy for you! I’m thinking of and praying for you! You’ve been on my mind so much lately! 

Post # 299
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

WE ARE ALL SO HAPPY FOR YOU! You’ve been on my mind since I first saw this thread. 

Post # 300
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

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worthlessbee :  that is great news! However, since you were worried that he was on to you last night, I would take some precautions in case he is setting you up (fake trip out of town to spy on you). Like another PP suggested, have a plan B and make sure someone is aware of all your movements just in case. I’m not sure if this out of town trip is something he frequently does, but the timing is a little suspicious to me. Please be careful and we are all in your corner!

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