(Closed) I can't keep this secret any longer…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 331
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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worthlessbee :  You could pretend it’s your period though.

EDIT: Sorry, maybe not a good idea. This would only work if you never ever ever have sex when on your period.

Post # 332
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Just another bee cheering you on from Minnesota! Fear does not define you!  Go! Go! Go!

Post # 335
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Do what you have to do for the next few days – it will be hard but just keep your eyes on the prize.  You have got this, and you know it.  Be strong and brave – every single bee who has read your story is behind you, cheering you on from all over the world.  You can do this.

Post # 336
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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worthlessbee :  Ugh. Add rape to his list of bad qualities. What a pig. I am so sorry. We’re all cheering for you. (((((hugs)))))

Post # 338
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Newbee

Please stay safe. Thinking of you and your pup. <3

Post # 339
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

OP, I’m cheering for you! I’m worried though – you’re on a public forum, anyone can read what you’ve posted, so if your husband knows you post on Weddingbee, he may be wise to your plans. Maybe you should make your move sooner, and not post your new plan here until you and your pup are safe. You’re smart. You’ve got this. Whatever you do, stay safe!!!!! 

Post # 340
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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bubbles00 :  Good point. Yes OP, deleting the thread would be wise if he knows about WeddingBee. (I just saved all 23 pages in case you want anything later).

Post # 341
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Praying for you. Holding thumbs for you. I don’t know you and I never will but I’m sending the deepest level of love and good vibes your way.

I cried reading this and my heart is swollen. 

Stay safe and know that we are all rooting for you.

 

Post # 342
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

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worthlessbee :  It is not you, it’s him. It is common for abusers to act wonderful around everyone else. Abusers have a specific target, i.e. a spouse. They are not merely grumpy people or depressed people. It is sociopathic and they know what they are doing behind closed doors but lack the normal human empathy. 

Bee I have tears in my eyes reading the shame and isolation you are naturally feeling. It must be terribly painful to see a man you love show his true colors. You are obviously a good, sweet and intelligent woman but it is time for you to start loving yourself more than him. Please leave him and feel free to PM me anytime! 

Post # 343
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I made an account for this. I’ve been following this board since you created it, as I’m sure many others have been. The people who commented on this thus far are all amazing people for giving you the courage to accomplish what you have. I’m very happy for you, and I know everyone who asks for more updates are all doing so for fear of your safety, as I have been. I know if you’ve done this much, you’re on your way out. 

Good luck

Much love

Post # 344
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Newbee

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worthlessbee :  First I want to say that I am so very sorry you are going through this. No man deserves to treat you like this. My aunt always described people like this as “a street angel, but a house devil”… They want everyone to think they are wonderful but yet he is flat-out abusing you. I’ve delt with a similar situation. The guy broke me down. I was never overly-confident but after dating him I literally felt worthless, no good, like no one loved me, like an emotional child. I know how hard it is to leave when you love someone. So many people say “leave, just go”… Of course you should, but I know how hard it is. We hold on to hope. One thing I will say, is DO NOT have a child with this guy. Please. You do not need to have a child witness this type of behavior. I hope you find peace and feel free to private message me if you want to talk. All the best. Please consider leaving him…..therapy can do wonders and yes it will hurt but time helps. Trust me.

Post # 345
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Busy bee

HUGS to you bee! You are amazing and incredibly strong for pulling yourself out of this situation.

I am SO proud of you and look forward to hearing you be free SOON from this pathetic jackass.

You are wonderful and you’reon your way to getting your life back! We’re all here for you and rooting for you!! 

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