(Closed) I can't keep this secret any longer…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 796
496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

You did the right thing by leaving and I’m glad you won’t go back (if it was bad before he would be disgusting to you knowing you have doubts).

But you make a great point that people should respect, you are a real person that everyone behind a keyboard doesn’t know, they give the right advice but need to know it is not easy to leave. people need to leave when they are ready. lives aren’t magically turned around. It will be tough. 

I hope you keep posting bee, you are doing so well x 

Post # 797
6938 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

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worthlessbee :  I’m so sorry you’ve been so upset and miserable and stressed but YOU CAN DO THIS!! And hooray for not being pregnant! That makes things a lot better. You can start to really focus on YOU. 

First things first though, change your email address and do not reply to him. Change everything you can so that your husband cannot contact you. You should only be talking through lawyers at this point. Also make sure to SAVE that email that he sent. Your lawyer need to see any threats he has made. 

Good luck Bee. I’m rooting for you!!!

Post # 798
477 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

worthy bee – Everyone is thinking good thoughts, and hoping that you are ok, but you also don’t owe anyone any updates or explanations. Use this forum as works for you, but also feel free to let a thread drop if you aren’t benefiting from participating in it. 

I’m glad (in this specific case) that you aren’t pregnant, to hear that you are ok and safe, and that you have a friend to stay with you. I’m sure that your feelings about the choice you have made will go up and down, and that’s completely normal. Treat yourself as gently as you can. <3

Post # 799
499 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Bee, you are an amazingly strong woman. A true warrior. I know this will be hard for a while…maybe even a long time…but you will absolutely get to a point where you think back “why did I do that for so long?”. Your perfect life is waiting for you. You just need to go through the crap to begin with. Sending love and best wishes to you xx stay safe xx

Post # 800
1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Worthy bee, stay safe, you are loved and a wonderful human being worthy of love and happiness. Wherever you are, I pray that the light will come soon to embrace you and lift you up from the lowest of the lows to the highest of the highs. You won’t be doing this alone, I know there are angels that will help you.


To everyone whoever doubted her, shame on you, she doesn’t need this so leave the thread alone.

Post # 801
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

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amyd223 :  I am glad everything is OK Bee and I wish you the best in the future.

Post # 802
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I haven’t read the whole thread, just the beginning and end. You sound like a strong, courageous, wonderful woman. Well done for doing this. It is right even if you only see darkness at the moment. Light will come. 

Post # 803
2847 posts
Sugar bee

I found those posts disgusting. Some people love to kick someone when they’re down. Just because the OP is a stranger on the internet does not give you the right to give her another kick. If you have doubts keep them to yourself. 

OP, you don’t need to prove anything to anyone. MOST of us wish you the best, and hope you continue to do what’s important: take care of yourself first and foremost, and stay safe.

Post # 804
16 posts

worthlessbee :  dear worthy bee ~ you can do this.  one day at a time.  and i’m so very sorry for the negative comments you had to come back to 🙁 but you also have so many women pulling for you and sending you lots of love & support!  if you need to talk, we are here.  sending you positive thoughts and prayers during this time xo

Post # 805
5015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

I’m surprised by how harsh some of you are being towards Bee’s that questioned the validity of this post.  In the cyber world, and on the forum it is not uncommon for a perfect stranger to post a thread that is an attention grabber and false just so to cause a reaction and spark conversation.  This is not a hotline but a place for people to come together to converse.  I think for the most part the Bees have been extremely supportive of the OP.  I for one have followed this thread, did have my own questions but have remained supportive of OP while wishing her safety and happiness.

WorthyBee, do not take peoples curiousity and questions to heart or as a personal attack.  As a whole we are routing for you and commend you for your strength and bravery.  I’m so glad that you have a friend who is staying with you through this.

Post # 806
11803 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

OK guys, I’m going to go ahead and close this since people are starting to speculate on the veracity of the OP’s posts, which is not helpful. If OP wants to come back and update, she can start a new thread.

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