Post # 1
Wedding is in 3 months, need a new job desperately as i am going broke working at my current job, my mom is constantly throwing fits(yelling & screaming), like everyday(its about her family issues with providing elderly care for her dad), and since i live at home i feel like i have no way to ever relax, and even my FH doesnt understand that waking up to yelling and screaming is awful and that is on top of my financial stresses + wedding planning….
phew..sorry im just freaking out and have no where to go to vent
Post # 3
Hey, it’s ok to vent, and your situation sounds really stressfull! I’m sorry you have to go through all that on top of the wedding stress, and I don’t think it’s fair that your FH doesn’t understand, that would make me angry and sad. He needs to support you 100%, no way around it. Just because he wouldn’t feel the same way (although, if you yelled at him every day, he probably wouldn’t like it either!) doesn’t make your feelings any less real. I think you need to make him understand that,
And how is your relationship with your Mother otherwise? Maybe you could sit her down and tell her how you feel? I don’t know if she’s upset about her father specifically, so if it’s not directed at you personally, maybe she doesn’t realise that she’s stressing you out.
I hope you can find a way to relax, you deserve it! hugs 🙂
Post # 4
Thank you 🙂 i guess he just cant understand the stress it puts on me when she acts that way..even though i tell him often enough..
and for my mom, well she doesnt know how to take “constructive criticism”. even if i gently explain this to her i think shell just get her feelings hurt and then continue to do it after she get s over it..