Post # 1
I just got married on 10/11 and it was a beautiful day! There were a few bumps in the road, but I still got married at the end of the day 🙂 But now I keep trying to replay the reception over in my head and I can’t remember after the father daughter dance. I had maybe 2-3 drinks and I made sure I ate earlier in the day and at dinner so I could not have been drunk. It just flew by and when I can’t remember the details I get emotional! Our wedding had about 135 people but I barely remember talking to my extended family and I was not able to get to all the tables. I keep beating myself up over it!!! I do know that there was plenty of food and drinks and the food was amazing and people were dancing the entire time. There is so much pressure for the day to be perfect so now I feel like I messed it up or something. Anyone else have this? Thank you!
Post # 2
- Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard
I did with my first marriage. We had about 300 people. I never got to take all the pics I wanted, I didn’t get to see everyone or talk to them, I forgot to hand out my favors until an hour before the end, so many people were helping the kitchen staff that was short people. I did my thank you cards and my ex was going to mail off and never did, they were sitting in his truck then he threw them away. I found out months and months later and was mortified. We did have a videographer and I got to see sooo much that I didn’t even know happened and reliving it was such a life saver.
Somethings you just have to let go of. It is what it is at this point. Hopefully you got video as well and just take it as it is. Don’t beat yourself up over what is done. I’m sure reaching out to those you didn’t get to talk to and apologizing to them personally will go a long way.
Post # 3
I only remember bits and pieces. Most of my memory is from pictures and video, and I only had one drink the whole day. I will say that as time goes on, I remember more. The whole day goes by so fast and it’s hard to take everything in. You’ll have more memories as time goes by.
Post # 4
- Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB
I got married 9/28 and it all feels like a blur! They tell me the ceremony was 35 mins long…seemed like about 6 mins to me. The reception went by so fast for me too. I feel like i went to bed that night and woke up on our honeymoon. Everyone told me they had a blast! so that makes me feel great, When i see pictures from the day that people have with me, I’m like “Oh that happened?” I think it was kinda in a daze. I still feel so in awe of the moment. What I remember most is how I felt. I felt like I was in a real life fairy tale. It was magical. (from what i remember)