(Closed) I can’t stand condescension! (LONG)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You said it. This is clearly a hypocritical person, but you seemed to have this guy’s number beore he even called you. Clearly, he is a gossip and is not in the best place to criticize anyone. I’d say try not to take it personally, given his track record. You know he’d probably find something offensive to say about your engagement even if you were 75.

Post # 4
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

If you know he is calling just for gossip, why do you answer the phone?

I wouldn’t worry at all about what he says, I have been with my husband since I was 20, and I have always been older maturation wise than people my own age.  And personally, I would stop answering the phone when he calls

Post # 5
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t listen to the drunk guy!!!  I don’t think you should let a word of what he says affect you.  A lot of people say those things because it didn’t work for them.

Post # 6
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

A gossip with an alcohol addiction is hardly someone whose opinion is worth listening to.  I wouldn’t even pick up the phone from now on.  

Post # 7
838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Im 22 and Fiance is 27 too!lol seriously though,hes an alcoholic, and a gossip so I wouldnt listen to him anymore than I would listen to a 4 year olds marriage advice.

He doesnt know you,he doesnt know your Fiance and he certainly doesnt know anything about your relationship together,so I really wouldnt talk to him from now on,

It also sounds like hes defending his upcoming “marriage” by throwing the age card out there,and maybe hes a little jealous that you and your Fiance have a stable happy relationship. Maybe?

Hugs anyway hun,no one should have to listen to someone else talking down to them

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