(Closed) I can't stand it when he says…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

“I seen” instead of “I have seen” or “I’ve seen”.  It irks me so!  He knows the proper way to say the phrase but that is how he talks.  :-/

Post # 4
2065 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

“Calm down.”

Seriously, it just pisses me off MORE when he tells me that – ESPECIALLY if I’m already calm, but just upset about something.

Also, he says “suposably” instead of the correct “supposedly” just because he knows it drives me up the wall (I tend to scream “THAT’S NOT A WORD!!!”). Ah, love. :p

Post # 5
582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can’t stand it when he comments on my driving. It’s nothing in general, just him doing it at all drives me CRAZY!!!

Post # 6
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@misspeanut:  I agree with you, completely! I do not get upset easily, and when I do…it is always over something very serious. It always goes something like… “You need to calm down. I’m sorry.”  Telling me to calm down automatically cancels out an apology! 

Post # 7
2006 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

“I don’t like when you _____” (In a very stern and cold voice). Typically when I did something ridiculous because I was upset with him.  It feels like he just threw ice water in my face.  however it always snaps me out of my bratty mood and makes me feel like I was being childish, so I guess its a good thing. He only says it whenever I was in fact being childish.

Post # 8
3417 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

“Use your head”.  He says it to everyone (including his brother or cousins or whomever) so I know he doesn’t mean it in a demeaning way but it drives me nuts.  Just the difference of how we grew up.  His dad talks the same way.

Post # 9
402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Not something he says, but when he rolls his eyes at me I just want to slap him. Also, he has a bad habit of saying “I’m sorry. But…” and then making an excuse for whatever he did. I don’t want your damned faux-pology!

Post # 10
550 posts
Busy bee


He says it when I’m upset about something and he doesn’t know what else to say.

Post # 11
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

“We’ll figure it out.” It doesn’t irk me nearly as much as it used to, but still annoying.

And this isn’t something he says, but if I’m getting agitated about something, he’ll pat my hand or my leg in a “calm down” kind of way. THAT really pisses me off. He usually does it in front of his mom, so I don’t end up flipping out, but I really want to.

Post # 12
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

“It is what it is.”

He says this ALL THE TIME when something bad happens that we can’t control, and it drives me berserk.  Especially when he says it two or three times in five minutes. 

Post # 14
504 posts
Busy bee

I hate when mine asks what I’m doing when I’m clearly making dinner or cleaning something. I usually respond with “salsa dancing” or “tanning”

It really just makes me want to punch him in the neck.

Post # 15
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

“It is what it is so deal with it.”

NOT a good thing to say to me when I’m all worked up about something!

Post # 16
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Jer72:  Yes I get that too! Makes me want to wring his neck!

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