(Closed) I can't stand it when he says…

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I ask him what he wants for dinner and his answer is food. Food is not a specific meal that I can cook.

Post # 48
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698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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Post # 49
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Helper bee

@Eckle:  Exactly mine!

Me: What do you feel like eating?

Him: Food

Thanks for the input! Tired of the rocks and twigs we’ve been eating?

Post # 50
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It drives me crazy when I start making dinner before he gets home, then the minute he walks in the do he sees what I’m making and says “did you remember to add the – so and so?” Argh, I know how to cook! Also, we cook together all the time. Do you think I just forget the minute you aren’t there?

Post # 51
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

He’ll just roll his eyes and sigh like he’s super exasperated and it just pisses me off!

Post # 52
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@This Time Round:  Argh! This is so true! I hate when Fiance responds this way, it usually causes me to scowl to which he remarks “what’s wrong hunny?” SERIOUSLY?!?! *incoming roundhouse kick*

Post # 53
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@bbsoon2be:  Haha!  This is like my Darling Husband with me, I’m the one who is like “What do you want to eat?”  Followed by “No…no…no….”  

Mine is “I’m sorry you feel that way.”  It’s such an asshole apology, it’s not “I”m sorry I was a jerk” but “I”m sorry your feelings are defective and ganging up on you in an unacceptable manner.”  It makes me all ragey.

Or, when we’re driving and I’m navigating, I’ll say “Go straight” and he’ll say (every single time) “You mean forward?”  You know, because roads have curves, therefore, forward is not the same as straight.  

OMG.

Post # 54
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Bumble bee

When he knows he’s wrong/been a jerk and instead of owning up he blows the conversation off by grumbling “whatever” and rolling his eyes. OMG I scream at him every damn time. You’d think he’d stop. I did not marry a 14 year old girl. Stop it.

Also the indecisive dinner thing. “What do you want?” “I don’t know, what do you want?” UGH. Must I always decide what to eat and where to go? Do they not get that it’s romantic to say, “put your boots on lady, I’m taking you out tonight. You’ll see where when we get there!”

Post # 55
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@bbsoon2be:  I hate the word SURE! He does that too! Sure is the answer for everything! It drives me crazy! Also, when I ask him what he wants for dinner, or anything lately, he says “surprise me.” I don’t want to surprise you! I want your opinion!

Post # 58
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I can’t stand it when he says, “Let’s go to the gym,” when all I want to do is be a slug and lay on the couch at that moment.  Embarassed  But, of course, I end up going because I’m too ashamed to admit it, lol.

Post # 59
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Sugar bee

“I did listen to you/I heard you.”

This usually follows me saying “You aren’t even listening to me.” Which ONLY comes out if it’s blatantly obvious that he didn’t hear a word I said but he would like to think otherwise. That phrase makes me want to chop him in the throat and break a table in half. I think it’s mostly because after he says that he follows it with an explanation that is supposed to “prove” to me that he was listening but what he tells me back is so ass-backwards and not related to what I was just saying that it furthers my point even more. Which makes me more angry that he’s even trying to change my mind with faulty information.

Post # 60
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

My Fiance does the dinner thing, too. He’s just not picky (I am), and would rather that I be happy, but I want suggestions from him! FFS!

Post # 61
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@vorpalette:  I’ve found that you should just go ahead and cook whatever you’d like to eat being a picky eater (I am too according to FI!).  I’ve started to tell Fiance that he has no right to complain since he didn’t give me any input and says “whatever you want hunny” ALL THE TIME! THANKS FOR NOTHING HUNNY!! *grumbles*

 

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