Post # 1
Ladies, I need some support. I am 42years old and getting married for the first time in just 15 days. To say that i am freaking out is an understatement!!! For 42 years I have been me, then I had my son and it was him and I. I live in the city were i grew up and i work at my dream job. In 15 days I will become a Mrs., move to a new state, be unemployed,and will be leaving my now 20 year old son behind to live his life. I have no fear about getting married. I know that my honey is the one! As i pack up my home and separate things for my son, my heart begins to race and the tears start again.
Tomorrow is my last day at my job, 2 weeks to pack before the wedding. I will be 5 hours away. Away from my son and my mom!!! I deserve this!!! I deserve to be happy!!! But i can’t stop crying!!!!!
Post # 3
@josiek1988: Who can blame you? Change is stressful, even good change! Hang in there and focus on the exciting and positive things about your new circumstances.
Post # 4
- Wedding: July 2014 - saint patricks parish
well I cant say I know how you feel cause I haven’t been in that possistion myself but. sometimes change can be good I mean you love your fiance and your son is 20 right? Your son will be fine i know thats probably one of your worries believe that he will be fine and that its his time along with yours to sink or swim. other than tat breathe lady breathe before you give yourself a heart attack and trust me nobody wants that. Just make sure you keep in touch with everybody that way you’ll adjust better. wish you all the best.
Post # 5
@josiek1988: aww hang in there hun it will pass, when me and my FH moved in together i was crying too. im 40 and my son is 11 years old and its always been him and me and when FH moved in i was crying like crazy. i love that we live together now but at first it was a big change for me and my son. now that the dust has settled its all good ; ) you have to let your children go in order for them to grow into independent adults i know it must be hard im prepping myself now lol caz i really smother my 11 year old and my FH tells me all the time to let go a lil hes got to become a big boy. i mama him too much. things will calm down, bless your heart think about it… its your time now to live your life ; ) we as parents will always be there for our children.
Post # 6
I can’t imagine what you’re going through but I feel for you. Hugs!