Post # 1
because my sister just told me that her (my MOH) and my neice (flower girl) won’t be attending our wedding in Aruba! I knew it was gonna happen (her flaking), but I was hoping and waiting for her to actually tell me! So with 2 months left she tells me today (while I’m @ work!). I thought I was drama free, but I was wrong!
I’ll get over it! I’m just totally upset right now! ugghh!
Post # 3
Why can’t she make it? Is it something financial that you could maybe help with?
I’m sorry…this sounds awful!
Post # 4
Awww….I’m sorry jingle. That’s awful. It’s really too bad that she waited until it was so late in the game.
Did she say why they can’t come?
Post # 5
UGH! That really just plain stinks. Just promise to remember when you’re down there it’s about the TWO OF YOU, not her and that she’s not there! Enjoy yourself, sounds like it will be an amazing destination wedding! Can I come? LOL
I hope you make it through the day alright. xoxo
Post # 6
I am very sorry about this. I would be upset too if this happened to me. Why can’t she come?
Post # 7
I am sorry to hear this. Did she give a reason?
Post # 8
Is there a good reason why she can’t make it? I’m so sorry that happened. That’s really disappointing, even if you felt it coming. I’d be upset too.
Post # 9
I’m so sorry, Jingle! I can’t believe she waited this long to tell you! Does she have a legitimate reason?
Post # 10
Im sorry to hear. Maybe you can talk to her and figure something out?!
Post # 11
Oh no. That’s terrible. I’m so sorry. Did she say why?
Post # 12
That really stinks! And she def should have told you sooner than two months before, not to mention she shouldn’t have told you while you were at work. But having said that..I am not sure what the situation is, but you have to realize that when you have a destination wedding not everyone is going to be able to go 🙁 Unfortunatley thats something that comes with the territory…
Good luck with everything! Hopefully no ones else will flake out on you this late in the game! Not cool!
Post # 13
Im so sorry about that like the others said I hope she has a good reason why she cannot attend. : (
Post # 14
Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear that!!!!!! I’d be so mad and disappointed, too =(
Post # 15
Thanks ladies! She can’t come because she says “she can’t do it financially” (we’ve been engaged for 1 yr now) but then I offered to pay for her and my neice, but she was saying things, like “no, you already spent a lot” or “I wouldn’t really enjoy myself, I’d stress out too much,” , then she just says, “I really don’t want to go.” So I’m not gonna force her if she doesn’t want to be there. But I think the real reason is because OUR dad is going to be there, she just won’t say it.
Our dad and mom separated 5 yrs ago and she still hasn’t forgiven him. But my mother and I have, but thats her issue if she can’t suck it up for a weekend. So thats the story ladies! Thanks for listening!
Post # 16
Oh Jingle I’m so so sorry she did that. What on earth is her reason? Nothing but hugs to you…