(Closed) i deserve to be loved!! right? vent rant

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee

It’s making you upset that he seems to be moving so slowly, correct? Where are you in the relationship at this point? Ideally, what would make you happy?

I know you’re saying you’ve dated for a few months, but how long is that?

Post # 5
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522 posts
Busy bee

@gut_feeling:  I remember your post from the long distance thread.

I’m sorry to hear that he only refers to you as the woman he is seeing. I know that that would upset me greatly so I imagine it can hurt for you to hear it.

I don’t think that any of what you said should be constituted as a “rant”. The fact is that it can really really hurt when you seem to be far more invested in a relationship than your partner is.

I don’t think that it is unreasonable to want a partner who wants to be with you (and shows it through words and deeds-and referring to you as his girlfriend-at least for me the title means a lot!) and cherishes you.

I’d suggest making a firm deadline for a couple months from now where you’ll re-evaluate the relationship and any steps he has (or has not!) taken. If he’s still unable to commit at that time I’d suggest going into a firm discussion with him about it knowing in the back of your mind that you will leave if the issue aren’t resolved.

Trust me, you don’t want to spend a long time with someone only to find out that you know you basically wasted your time on them.

Good luck!

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