(Closed) I did a bad, bad thing (kind of a vent)

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 17
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I offered to help my boyfriend pay and explained it’s your future together well be paying for our wedding and I house together. I also told him I just want him and a ring from a quarter machine would also be fine haha. Anyway, neither if those were okay with him lol.

I’d just say tell him how important it is to you and that you want him to remember that but you won’t be talking about it anymore, its important to stick to that too!

Post # 18
7426 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

Let him do it in his own time.

Post # 19
1798 posts
Buzzing bee

I think he would feel bad about himself if you offered to pay for some of the ring. You might hurt is feelings because that is suggesting that he can’t afford to make you happy in most men’s eyes. I would just let him take his sweet time paying it off, and be patient! You could also ask him if he has a general idea of when he plans to propose, and if it’s within the next few weeks/months/years etc. because you have the right to know at least a general idea of when. 

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