Post # 1
i did it…. i left my fi a few weeks ago and surprisingly i have not been too sad but i am wondering if this feeling of “okayness” is because i know that he has not moved on yet. once he does i wonder if i will still feel the same. if you read my past posts you will know that i should leave but i wonder if any of you have gone through this and been okay. i always think that the person that breaks up always ends up being the one regretting it in the end.
thanks so much! you all have inspired me to be better.
Post # 3
@loli: If you feel good, then it can’t be bad. You might feel some regret later but the fact that you feel good now means that you’re relieved.
Best of luck.
Post # 4
idk, i wouldnt overthink it… maybe you just realize you made the right decision. still, be prepared to deal with it if you do get overwhelmed by feelings at some random time in the future… 🙂
Post # 5
Yeah, I agree with PP.
It’s normal to feel a mix of emotions, but even if most of yours are positive (relieved, excited, etc.) that’s a GOOD thing! You feel the way you feel.