(Closed) I did it. I broke up with him.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

“He didn’t even fight me on the breakup”   oh im so sorry  and im sending lots of hugs for you to be strong and have a happy future…. it WILL happen, have faith in that you are a wonderful strong person that will have happiness, love and desire in your life

((huggs))

 

Post # 4
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4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I’m so sorry, but it sounds like this was the right decision for you. We’re here for you! 

Post # 5
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420 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

aww i haven’t read any of your previous posts, but it sounds like you made the right decision.  i used to be in a similar situation, lack of drive w/jobs, money, school, US; it finally drove me away!!  especially if you couldn’t shake the thought that maybe ya’ll should be broken up, thats usually a pretty reliable sign.  stay strong, you are right when you say you can’t change a person.  you are meant for someone else and you will find each other soon enough!

Post # 6
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1562 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

oh honey. i am SO sorry! but you know in your heart it is for the better. it will take a lot of time to heal and move past this – but you will. I just wanted to give you hugs and tell you “everything will be ok”. I know you may not want to hear that right now…or maybe you do – either way it’s true.

I just wish you all the luck and love in the world and hope that things get better for you.

(((((((HUGS)))))))))

Post # 7
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768 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I just want to reach through and give you a hug! It will get better. I promise! But for now, it’s ok to just be sad. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 8
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2404 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

(((((HUGS)))))) i’m so sorry to hear of this news, but it sounds like you’ve made the right move…and with immense thought, knowing that in the end it will be better for you. Things will get better and each day will reaffirm your decision!

Best to you, and know that when tough days come, the hive will be here for you ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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327 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So sorry ๐Ÿ™  As long as you stay true to yourself, that is the most important thing. It may not be much comfort right now, but as horrific as one of my break-ups was – I wouldn’t avoid having to deal with it for the world. It sucked, but I came out of it a better, stronger person and it has made me a better partner to Fiance. Take time to pamper yourself during this difficult period. And also know that there are beautiful things awaiting you on the other side of all this.

Post # 10
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972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

You deserve better! Sometimes men have a lack of ‘common sense’, he isnt even TRYING to make it work out??? WTF! You guys are engaged to be married, this is a serious time in your lives and he’s treating it like its no big deal, you dont want a husband like that, you want a man that will be your teammate and stick by you through thick and thin, good luck with everything, and IF and only IF you still love him and he does you, I hope he will come to some sense and try to make it work!!!!!

Post # 11
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296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

So sorry to hear, but time is truly the healer of all wounds.  You will look back on this months or a year from now and realize it was the best decision. Stay strong and true to yourself

Post # 12
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1455 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

((((HUGS!)))) Stay strong, this sounds like the right decision. And moving forward, now you seem to have learned a TON about yourself and what you want/need from a partner. Love from the hive ALWAYS!

Post # 13
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry for this.  It really sounded like you weren’t happy with the relationship lately and it isn’t good that you want to change him in the relationship.  I’m sure that you will find someone who is better suited for you.

Post # 14
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3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I am sorry about the way that it ended up working out. However, I am really glad that you took the time that you needed to make sure that this was the decision that was best for YOU. I know that things are tough for you right now….but day by day things will get better for you.

Post # 15
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1385 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m so sorry and just like MissAsB said I hope you find someone better in time.

Post # 16
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1392 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

so sorry about all this, but it sounds like you really have your head on straight and you knew it  was the right thing to do….I don’t recall your other posts, but it sounds like if you had stayed with him you probably both would have ended up unhappy.

 

I hope you make it through all the changes with ease and that you find someone right for you soon.  You deserve it!

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