posted 8 years ago in Dress
  • poll: HELP!!! Which one do you like the most?

    Dress 1 (the original)

    Dress 2 (the "other")

  • Post # 31
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

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    MsMusicBird:  The original dress and sash are gorgeous on you and fit very well together. The second dress – I agree with PP. You look like you’re doing a permanent hip pop, and the skirt doesn’t flow quite right. I also think the white looks better on your skin tone than the ivory of the second dress. Can you go back and try on that original dress again? I think putting that dress on again would help your doubts. 

    Post # 32
    22 posts
    • Wedding: October 2014

    One the first dress, the flowers look like an organic part of the dress, as though they were made with each other in mind. On the second dress, it looks like you bought a belt and then put it on the dress. They don’t really match.

    Everyone has doubts. You’re second-guessing, wondering if you made the right choice… but just remember why you loved the first dress so much. The moments you shared, the way it made you feel like no other dress has before… If it loves you back, it will forgive you for your moments of doubt. 😛

    Post # 33
    64 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    The first dress!  It’s lovely and looks wonderful with the flowers.

    I…really dislike the second dress.  And personal tastes aside, honestly, you look 20 pounds lighter in the first dress versus the second.

    Post # 34
    4101 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada


    I love the belt/dress combo of #1 much better. Dress 2 is much more sassy and definitely more dramatic. I cant really speak to the “losing the moment” part because I think moments are memories we keep regardless of whether we keep the object they were created around.

    Personally I’d stick with dress 1, while I love a good dramatic dress, I feel like dress 1 suited your description of yourself a bit more than the second and is more flattering for your tiny waist! 🙂

    Post # 35
    13955 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Fit may have something to do with it. I may be wrong, but from the photo, # 2 looks way too big, like it is wearing you rather than the other way around.  There is also something off about how the fabric is draping.   I am not a fan of the flower belt and don’t think it adds anything to either dress, but it definitely looks best with the first. 

    Post # 36
    1093 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Do you like the ruching on the second dress?  You appear to me to be a tiny waisted pear shape.  I have seen some girls on this site that really look good in fit and flare dresses and natural waist ballgowns.  What is it about the first dress that has you doubting it? You can have a second bridal moment but it will be much more difficult to have. It is normal to question your dress choice.  You are right that we don’t know you or which dress makes you feel like the your best possible self.  Just trust your yourself and go with the one that you like.  Then stop looking.

    Post # 39
    967 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    dress one. I don’t care for the flowers though.

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