I didn’t really know him 😞

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

How did you find the whores house?

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

You need to get yourself and your children out of the home you’re sharing with him. Your relationship is clearly over , was over, and you still searched through his emails and stalk his new partners- which you have NO right to, as you’re not in a relationship anymore. He can be with as many “whores” as he wants- its none of your business.

You need intensive therapy, if your therapist isn’t helping you then seek another. Go to a women’s family shelter if need be and start the divorce proceedings.

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Stalking his partners at this point is not healthy.  The relationship is definitely over.  You need to move forward with the divorce and stop living together ASAP.  Tell him to change the pin on his phone.  You don’t need to find out anything about the people he is with, or their homes or family members. (?!)  You already know what you need to know about him to know he is not a good husband for you.  Leave and don’t look back.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Mmm, Idk… they’re legally married, so i honestly think she has SOME right. 

It’ll play in her favor during the divorce proceedings, yea?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Anyways, GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE girl. Like, immediately. You’re really hurting yourself & your brain & stuff by staying in there. That kind of sick twisted s*** is enough to make a person physically sick. You cannot stay there. I’d rather live in a haunted house than in a regular house with a cheating spouse even if the relationship is over NOW, at one point he was your TRUE spouse, & he cheated).

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

He needs to get his lying ass out of the house. And you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and make a plan that doesn’t include living with someone who’s hurt you. 

For the future, people don’t change dramatically overnight.  It’s tempting to believe that he suddenly snapped and became this other person, but it’s just not the case. You just missed or ignored all the signs that were there.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

There are alot of factor’s that come with leaving. Did you buy a house together? If so can you get him to help with the mortgage or are you able to do it on your own? If you can afford it. Kick his ass out tell him to go live with his whore, and change all your locks. That is the first thing that you need to do. I know in my state if you a spouse leaves the other spouse can get you for abandonment. But that is not likely to happen in your case. Who cares where he goes, he has broken all the trust that was there. Next go file for a seperation. Thank god you have no children with him. I am so sorry you have to go through this. There is nothing worse than to have to share a home with someone that you dispise. He crossed the ultimate line. You have to keep your strength up for your self and your beautiful children. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

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survive :  O.k. good. Sounds like you have a plan. And you are doing all the right things. You are a very smart women. And his hours are perfect for you to keep doing what you are doing. Save as much money as you can ( i am sure I don’t have to tell you that lol). The less things you have to do at the end the better you will be. I am very proud of you Bee for having the strenght for doing this, some women would stay but as hard as it is your gathering up the strenght to leave. Well done.

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