- 4 years ago
- Wedding: Aug 23, 2014
So, Darling Husband and I have been dating 10 years and married 1 year. We are expecting our first baby in 8 weeks!!
In the past I have been great at just brushing off what a jerk fil is… But I think my hormones are getting the best of me and I’m about done!! I ALWAYS put on a smile and I’m ALWAYS polite. But I’m almost to my breaking point.
I have a great relationship with mil and though we don’t always see eye to eye there is a mutual respect and we never have issues.
Fil on the other hand — I feel has zero respect for me. Or my husband I’s relationship. He butts into totally unnecessary and inappropriate topics. He threw a fit no grown man should EVER through regarding the name we picked for our baby. And is now telling Darling Husband that he should be added to my personal bank account and make sure he is included in all my spendings. The only things I buy are groceries and baby stuff… And bills. I just don’t get where he has the audacity to try to make me feel like I don’t contribute and need to be “watched”. I am EXTREMLY frugal and never buy unnecessary things… Darling Husband knows this and we have never had any issues regarding money. Darling Husband thought it was ridiculous and could believe his dad said it… Especially in front of me.
How is do I deal with this without going completely INSANE!!! And how do I torture myself with what will be even more frequent visits once the baby is born.
We only live 5 minutes from them… ahh!!!