(Closed) I DO NOT LIKE HIS FAMILY!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Wow. Just, wow. Is he cutting them out of his life or what is the deal?

I had a similar situation with my fiance from my first engagement years ago. His family was awful and they made my life a living hell. Just remember his family is his family and you will have to deal with them for as long as you two are together. Unless he is disowning them…..

Post # 4
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12976 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, I’m really sorry you have to deal with all of this.  It’s really great that your Fiance has “picked” you (for lack of a better word) and is standing by you.  I think that, for the sake of your daughter if nothing else, you should try to engage his family in a conversation about these issues and try to figure out where they are coming from.  You may have unintentionally slighted them somehow once and they’re holding it against you, or maybe they’re just being crazy.  Regardless, I’d try to talk to them honestly (and respectfully) to see if you can make a better situation. 

Good luck!

Post # 6
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3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m sorry to hear this. It sounds like your Fiance has your back though which is good. My in laws are not the best either, and as my dad always says to me: “at least you don’t live with them”

Post # 7
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61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You are stronger than me, I couldn’t live with this. 

 

 

Post # 8
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@tovaford12: I agree.

Just prepare yourself. You will be dealing with this forever.

Post # 9
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4070 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

@tovaford12: I agree with this 🙁

He loves you and that is all that is important!!  My exs mum did a similar thing, kept tell him (and me) that we should get back together, that his new girlfriend was nothing on me.  Eventually he turned around and told her what the deal was, that we are NEVER getting back together and that she had to just suck it up!  Good luck.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ladyartichoke, I think to some degree you marry a guys’ friends and family.  Is his love the most important thing, I’d say yes.  Is it all that is important, I’d say no.

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