Post # 1
I have read a lot of posts about Bees being concerned about what their mum, dad, Future Mother-In-Law and Future Father-In-Law (etc. etc) are wearing to the wedding.
I don’t care what they wear… I haven’t even asked! I trust my mum and my dad to look their best (they always do) and I’m just not really fussed what my in-laws wear…
Is anyone else the same as me?? I feel like maybe I’m missing something here… I guess I don’t see why it’s that important, can’t they just wear what they want?
Post # 3
I don’t care what they wear, as long as they are comfortable, happy and ready to celebrate!
Post # 5
Every woman within three degrees of family separation has asked me what I want them to wear… I’ve told them all the same thing- as long as it’s not white, I don’t care, and I’d prefer that the principals (my mom, my gmom, FMIL) don’t wear navy (so they stand out from the BM’s). That’s it. And it’s not good enough for anyone. Guh.
Post # 6
I said no jeans…my mother was not satisfied with this and I went dress shopping with her and helped her pick out an awesome dress. No idea what anyone else is rocking though.
Post # 7
LOL I was wondering if I was the only one! I couldn’t care less, I really think that some brides go way overboard and think that their loved ones are accesories and not honoured guests. Having said that, everyone in my family knows to dress accordingly so I’m not at all worried. AND…….I wouldn’t even care if someone wore white, or ivory, or cream, or champagne! (gasp) Now, if someone shows up in a veil and tiara, I’ll take them OUT.
ETA: I don’t even have “colours” (I know, what kind of bride am I? I’m going to lose my Bride Card), so I have nothing to tell them to coordinate anyways!
Post # 8
Agreed! I want them to wear whatever they feel comfortable in 🙂
Post # 9
I don’t care~ I told them as long as they’re not wearing hawaiian shirts, crocs and sombreros, I am a-okay. LOL
Post # 10
No jeans and if anyone is ordering from the same company as the guys they have to order a different color of pants. I did shop with my mom but that’s just what I would have done had she been going to any wedding. I’m sick and tired of my Future Mother-In-Law telling me she doesn’t know which dress to wear (I really don’t give a shit).
Post # 11
cdncinnamongirl Bride card! Hahaha
Please, dear family members, please understand that I simply do not care what you wear. It’s outside in June. Dress accordingly. Or don’t, its not my problem.
Post # 12
I had no idea what anyone was going to wear. They showed me a few days before when we were packing, but I just oohed and ahhhed about how nice it was and that was that!
I agree with pp… As long as it wasn’t white! Haha
Post # 13
I could really care less. I’m also not so concerned about what my pictures look like as I am with getting married.
Post # 14
Well, our dads were in the same tux’s as the rest of the guys so they didn’t really have a choice. Our moms though, I didn’t care what they wore. I told them both that it would be nice if the colors they chose complimented the rest of our Bridal Party but it wasn’t a necessity. Besides, I knew that they both would have coordinated to the best of their ablities anyway so we didn’t have any issues when it came to dressing them.
Post # 15
@cdncinnamongirl: I agree, I really don’t care if anyone wears a shade of white. I don’t think anyone will be confused about who is the bride! What everyone wears is really not something I want to stress over- there are so many other things to think about anyway!