(Closed) I don’t even want my dad at the wedding.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

WOW, are you my twin or what!? Seriously!?
My dad is the same way. My parents are divorced both are re-married, and my dad is wrapped around my step mom’s finger and agrees with everything she says. Here is what I am deciding to do. I asked my mother what she thought, she told me she didn’t want to tell me what she thought, because she didn’t want me to regret the choice I make. I decided that by around the time the invites go out for out wedding, if he has not made any effort to contact me (Serisouly, I am his only daughter, and we have gone 6 months without talking, at all, not even a little, no contact at all! and that;s without us fighting, or being mad at eachother, we just don’t talk, because he never picks up the phone never replies to my e-mail, whatever) that I am not going to invite him. I don’t want to invite him and have someone else walk me down the aisle because I know how he is and will make a scene or say something, and if he doesn’t (I will be super shocked if he didn’t) I know my step mom will. If I knew they wouldn’t make a scene I might consider it. So if he doesn’t make an effort to repair the relationship, then I don’t see any reason why I should let him walk me down the aisle, He certainly has not acted like my father, so why should he pretend to be a father for my special day, when I know it will all be fake, and go back to the way it is now after the wedding. I don’t think so. Hope everyhing works out for you! =]

Post # 4
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463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

do what makes you fell good girly!!!! honestly if its going to be negative them dont invite but remeber will this ruin you relationship with him for 20 years down the road, think when you and your hubby have kids will he have a role in thier lives???

Post # 6
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271 posts
Helper bee

Wow, I really feel for you. I reckon you’re better off not having either of them there Instead just enjoy your day and your fiance, in the end your marriage is what matters that day. Not their parenting. 

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