Post # 1
I met a great guy on a dating site we talked on the phone for an hour Tuesday night and I haven’t heard from him since Thursday. I called him private because I told him I wasn’t ready to give out my number. I messaged him on the dating site and it shows he hasn’t been on since the 16th being Thursday. My question is since he messaged me and pursued me should I call him? Or should I Facebook message him? I haven’t felt like a connection this way in such a long time. Any advice would be great.
Post # 2
Thursday was only the day before yesterday so it’s not like he’s ghosted on you. Give him a chance to message you. If you haven’t heard from him by tomorrow you can always message him and say something like “just wanted to say hi. Hope you had a good weekend.” Maybe he’s just been really busy.
Post # 3
Please don’t look for him on FB, a guy I didn’t match with on tinder looked me over in FB (small country, same profile picture) I dont know but he message me and it was the creepiest thing ever!!
Post # 4
Should I call him he gave him my number
Post # 5
happycomelately : I would give it until Monday. You said it showed he hasn’t logged in and probably hasn’t seen the last message. Thursday wasn’t that long ago.
If he hasn’t touched base by Monday, then you could try a call and say you just wanted to check in and see how he was.
Post # 6
If he wants to get in touch with you he will. At this point I would assume he doesn’t want to
Post # 7
I would just wait. If he wants to contact you, he will. Not to burst your bubble, but you aren’t exclusive so he could be on dates this weekend. Why weren’t you willing to share your number after the hour long conversation?
Post # 8
happycomelately : I would wait. Thursday was just the other day and I’m sure a chick he met online isn’t his first priority. He may be busy, give the guy some time. If he felt a connection he will reach out on his own.
Post # 9
Absolutely agree with all these comments. I know you must be super keen to talk to him as you felt a spark, but just give it a few days.
It is 100% true that if a guy is keen on your he will message. If he doesnt by Monday, shoot him a text instead of calling and ask how he is going. If he doesnt reply, unfortunately he may not be keen.