I dont know

posted 2 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 2
3759 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Thursday was only the day before yesterday so it’s not like he’s ghosted on you. Give him a chance to message you. If you haven’t heard from him by tomorrow you can always message him and say something like “just wanted to say hi. Hope you had a good weekend.” Maybe he’s just been really busy.

Post # 3
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

Please don’t look for him on FB, a guy I didn’t match with on tinder looked me over in FB (small country, same profile picture) I dont know but he message me and it was the creepiest thing ever!! 

Post # 5
509 posts
Busy bee

happycomelately :  I would give it until Monday. You said it showed he hasn’t logged in and probably hasn’t seen the last message. Thursday wasn’t that long ago. 

If he hasn’t touched base by Monday, then you could try a call and say you just wanted to check in and see how he was. 

Post # 6
2328 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

If he wants to get in touch with you he will. At this point I would assume he doesn’t want to

Post # 7
57 posts
Worker bee

I would just wait. If he wants to contact you, he will. Not to burst your bubble, but you aren’t exclusive so he could be on dates this weekend. Why weren’t you willing to share your number after the hour long conversation? 

Post # 8
2866 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

happycomelately :  I would wait. Thursday was just the other day and I’m sure a chick he met online isn’t his first priority. He may be busy, give the guy some time. If he felt a connection he will reach out on his own. 

Post # 9
616 posts
Busy bee

Absolutely agree with all these comments. I know you must be super keen to talk to him as you felt a spark, but just give it a few days.

It is 100% true that if a guy is keen on your he will message. If he doesnt by Monday, shoot him a text instead of calling and ask how he is going. If he doesnt reply, unfortunately he may not be keen.

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