(Closed) I don't know if I am being overly needy or not…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You still manage to see each other once or twice a week though, so it’s not like holiday was the only time he could see you and he made plans.  Maybe that is a friend that he sees even less often and holidays are the only time that those friends or family was available?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Fizzybee:  I have this feeling a lot too. But I have to remind myself that soon it will be just me and him, and all of our friends will not be near us anymore. We will be graduating in May and Married in January. 

I have to tell myself that soon I will get to be with him all I want, and this is his time to hang out with his friends as much as he can. 

You stated study in your post so I assume yall are in college. It will be your time soon for you two to be together all the time. 🙂 Just be patient. 

Post # 6
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9114 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

You need his attention just as his friends need his attention, too. It’s hard to micromanage both sets when you live a considerable distance apart.

Post # 8
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259 posts
Helper bee

You should talk to him, if you haven’t voiced your feelings to him, he wont know it bothers you and than after you tell him I’m sure he will try to spend for holidays with you

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