Post # 16
anonbee581 : well the divorce and actual child expenses parts are important. You might as well get it in writing before the baby is born. And maybe you can get your husband to cover a portion of your medical expenses (relating to pregnancy). You need to be proactive about ensuring the well-being of yourself and your baby. Don’t wait to do all of this after the baby arrives
Post # 17
Should I get a laywer now or wait unitl im further along ?
Post # 18
Now. Immediately. Take steps to protect your baby’s future today.
Post # 19
This man has literally turned into a monster . On our 1 year annniversay , He went to the courthouse to get divorce papers that say ” petition for dissolution of marriage with no dependent or minor children or property” .
He says hes paying someone to “fill them out” and notarize and i just need to sign. He really thinks I’m an idiot. He keeps pressing the issue after i’ve told him numerous times i will not sign anything his lawyer prepared. He says ” what ?!” “what lawyer???” . I also asked if he planned on lying on legal documents , and asked did he tell “the person helping fill out the forms” that I am pregnant he says no. He continues to pressure me saying he wants to move on and he wants the divorce final now rather than wait till the child is born .
He has something up his sleeve and I will not be manipulated anymore.
I called an attorney and they’re going to get back to me tomorrow .
Post # 20
Stop communicating with him. Talk to your lawyer and follow their advice. Talk to your local domestic violence organisation and follow their advice alongside your lawyers advice. anonbee581 :