(Closed) I don’t know what to do

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Have you tried talking to them about it? What is the reason they don’t like him?

Post # 4
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Newbee

I think you need to ask what their problem is with him.  There must be a reason if he’s really as great as you make him sound.  Is it possible that they know something that you don’t?  Even if he treats you well, was there an incident outside of the relationship with a family member or something?  Does he have a job?  Does he do drugs?  I really can’t figure this out!   

Post # 6
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Newbee

Next time you hear a verbal jab, you just need to ask.  I can’t believe you haven’t yet!  That would drive me nuts.. 

Post # 7
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5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@W8ingBee: It sounds like she HAS asked, and they try to dodge the question.

All I can think of is that you need to tell them you have something very important to talk about, sit them down privately, and not leave until you get a straight answer.  Tell them that you love and respect them, and that if there is a reason they think you shouldn’t be with him, that you are willing to hear them out.  Tell them that it is hurting you deeply to see them treat him differently than your sisters’ partners, and you need to know why.

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