- 9 years ago
My fiance and i have been going through hard times. We both have worries and its getting in the way of our relationship.
I wont go into detail about what is wrong, but just the results.
I feel like he doesn’t want to marry me anymore, that he keeps thinking about someone in the past, and that he cant stand me for very long periods of time.
Is it common for a man to start pulling away after getting engaged?
We fight, but so do other couples. We have issues, but i believe that if you love each other and want to marry each other, then we would want to work out whatever issues we have and grow together.
For me, even though we fight, there is no one else i would ever want. I dont stop loving him because we had a fight. He makes me feel like he is the opposite. Like, he doesn’t love me anymore and that other people in his past were easier to be with.
I love him so very much.. it’s killing me. My heart breaks so many times to the point that i actually feel pains in it. I’m worried that he has fallen out of love with me.
One minute he loves me so much and the next he tells me he should have ran from me a long time ago.
I’m not mean to him and i’m extremely faithful.. loyal.. etc. He’s the only man in my thoughts so its not like he is dealing with someone who is doing wrong.
We just have fights about the opposite sex.. both of us.
I dont know..
do any of you go through these feelings? Am i alone? I’m so scared i’ll lose the only man ive ever really wanted… and the sad thing is, i’m probably 99% sure he would never find someone who loves him so deeply and is so pure in thought at all times.
I love him enough to let him go if he isnt happy, but when i talk about it to him, he stops me every time.