Post # 1
I have recently cheated on my hubby with a work collegue, we didn’t have sex but did everything but.
I now have feelings for the work collegue, not sure whether these are real feelings or just a reaction to the incident.
Have no intention of telling my husband
It is unproffesional to pursue the work collegue
But I cant stop thinking about him.
Post # 3
I think you should tell your husband.
Post # 4
I dont think that is the solution,
I figure I have 2 options
1) Get over it and move on with our life
2) Leave husband and try being single for a while
Post # 5
Option #2 would still require telling your husband. And I don’t think option #1 is fair to your husband. Didn’t you take vows when you married him?
Post # 6
Doing everything but have sex isn’t any more honorable than if you had had sex. Time to tell your husband and either leave if you aren’t going to be committed, or work through it and don’t ever see your coworker again.
Who cares if it’s unprofessional? It’s downright trashy and disrespectful to the man you promised to forsake all others for.
Maybe I’m being harsh.. but I have no respect for cheaters. Come clean.
Post # 7
I am not excusing what I did, but it would break his heart to tell him, and for what purpose? I would rather leave him than tell him.
Post # 8
I think you should try to get to the bottom of why you cheated. Figure out why you did what you did. I don’t think I’d tell right away. I’d try to understand what the under lying issues are first.
I would also begin looking for a new job.
Post # 9
@ohdear: So leaving him for no apparent reason wouldn’t break his heart?
Post # 10
@FranksMama: Yes I guess that’s whats bothering me, is the why I did it, I have no intention in leaving my job, I love it and the co worker is being very respectful
Post # 11
Try to convince your new boyfriend and your husband to become swingers and throw a little party in their honor
Post # 12
@Meealissa: Love it.
Don’t feed the troll, ladies.
Post # 13
@Meealissa: fair call
Lets not turn this into a cat fight ladies, i am actually a regular poster who you all know well, I am not excusing what i did, I really am screwed up right now and cant talk to anyone else.
Post # 14
I guess you should leave him, though not telling him why could hurt him for life. He might end up obsessing about what it could have been and that could have a terrible ending, YOU NEED TO TELL HIM EVEN IF YOU LEAVE… it’s not right or fair to stay and waste his time, let him go so he can go out and find someone too.
Post # 16
I think you really need to figure out why you cheated and if you really have feelings for this guy or not, first of all.
If you don’t have feelings and it was just something stupid you did, you need to find a new job. Even if you have feelings for him, you need to find a new job.