(Closed) I don\'t know what to think….3

posted 5 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
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Bumble bee

You must be in some emotional chaos right now, but your story is a bit muddled.

You said: “I discovered I got egage for the wrong reason and I couldn’t lived knowing he didn’t do it the way I wish.”  What did you mean?  Isn’t the only reason for an engagement is to marry?  If you wouldn’t mind elaborating.

You also said something about: (1) You can’t wait until he proposes the right way and (2) he is blinded by depression. 

There’s a large chunk of detail missing from your story.  But here are my suggestions:

1.  Let of the fairy tale.  I think him proposing is a sign of engagement.  If you are aiming for a more formal engagement, then I think your expectations might not be lining up with his. 

2.  His depression sounds off.  What I understood is he proposed inappropriately BECAUSE of his depression.  I would get this in perspective as depression is a word commonly used here in the Bee.  Even when someone is just a bit down, not crazy hyper, people already accuse them of depression.  Maybe he’s just mellowed out, stressed and all.  That doesn’t equate depression.  Please don’t web diagnose your boyfriend. 

Again, this is an advice per the small detail you gave out. 

 

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