(Closed) I don't know where else to go :((((((((

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Not often, but I remember feeling that way once or twice in the past. Tell him it must be hormonal, ask him to just let you cry it out, and then do. Just let it all out in a big burst. Hopefully you’ll feel better. Sorry you’re having a rough day. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Does this sort of thing happen often? If so, may be worthwhile to speak to your doctor! Hugs!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It really can, and hopefully he will understand that. Sometimes emotions get away from us, especially with weddings coming up. It could be very cathartic to just let it all out and then spend a night by yourself winding down with some wine and your favorite book or movie or website. 

Edit: @BakeosaurusRex: Agreed. If this is common, look into it. It could be anything from needing different birth control to something more serious. Take care of yourself!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Early on in our relationship this happened to me twice in a very short period of time.  Fiance felt helpless and didn’t understand that nothing was wrong and I couldn’t explain why I was crying.  I did end up going to a therapist and realized I was normal and eventually these spells passed once I realized I was normal Wink  Cry, let it out and if it starts to happen frequently I recommend talking to your doctor as well. 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This happens to me sometimes, I am not a very emotional person by the way. It happens when I am really stressed or feel I have to much going on. For me I think its normal to just burst out cryng when you dont really do it often. Sometimes I have to give out a few cries and screams to keep myself sane. I have to remember I dont always have to have everything together all the time. Planning a weddingcan also bring people alot of emotions I have noticed. I really hope you feel better 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yes, I feel this way sometimes, but I’ve been diagnosed with Depression.  Have you ever been?  Even if you haven’t, it’s unfortunately one of those things that can start at any time even if you never had it before.  If you’re so sad and can’t even think of a reason why, you really should be talking to a doctor to see if anything is physically wrong.  Good luck to you. *hugs* I hope you find out what’s going on soon and get better.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I feel like that once in a while. I sometimes feel like my emotions are like a bucket that in time fill up with tears and then they just spill over. May sound silly, but it helps for me to watch something sad regularly just to let the tears out so that my “bucket” doesn’t overflow.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

I also do that once in a while… I blame it on stress. I let it out, I don’t know why I do it, but there’s nothing that makes me want to cry, like I have no reason… it’s just that straw that breaks the camel’s back… usually it happens when my period is unusually heavy and flows like a waterfall.  It happened to me once in the last three years. So it’s not a regular thing for me.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@FutureMuniz:  I never used to but since this whole wedding thing Im an emotional wreck. My fiancee and I just want it over with so my emotions even out. Finding evening primrose oil helping and early nights

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ugh this happened to me at work last month! I was stressed, on the first day of my period and had just had a really sad convo with one of my elderly patients about her realization of her life ending and I had a breakdown! I cried for 2 hours straight and had to leave work because I couldn’t pull it together. I cried the during my entire hour-long drive home, freaked Fiance out by answering his phone call in tears and he insisted on leaving work to come be with me! And I NEVER cry! So I feel ya! I took a nice long nap and watched a favorite movie and then I was okay 🙂

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This EXACT thing happened to me just a few days ago! I seriously like could not stop crying and that really never happens to me. I have no history of anxiety or depression so it was a really wierd feeling. I’m really chalking it up to wedding planning and since Fiance has been out of town a lot for work lately I think I’ve been feeling lonlier than normal. Making decisions about everything wedding related finally caught up to me and it came out as a crazy sobfest. I just told Fiance that when I ask him a question from now on I cannot hear “I don’t care”…I really realized that with every “I don’t care” I would get more and more frustrated. Being able to pinpoint that and tell him what I needed actually took a lot of stress off my shoulders and I’m feeling back to normal now!

Keep your chin up-it will pass!

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