(Closed) i dont like my engagement ring :(

posted 5 years ago in Rings
  • poll: what to do???
    tell my fiancee and try to swap it (will have to be at a pawn store) : (42 votes)
    17 %
    get over it - i picked it - deal with it (i tend to agree but just cant let it go!!) : (196 votes)
    78 %
    "lose" it and buy another one - cheaper of course!! ever stirling silver and zirconia : (6 votes)
    2 %
    anything else - please leave comment : (7 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2018

    You chose the ring, you could have waited until you got home. You loved it at the time, you will love it again 🙂

    Post # 4
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    808 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Can you post a picture?

    Post # 5
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    235 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    id change it. your stuck with it forever otherwise and will be unhappy. hindsight is a pain!!!

    before you tell your fiancee though i would check out pawn stores as you say before you do in case you cant swap it or something and hurt his feelings for no reason …..

    Post # 6
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    1269 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Maybe he can layaway you one at a bigger jeweler. 

    Post # 7
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    5983 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I would imagine it’s not nearly as bad as you feel it is.  I cannot advocate you “losing” it or anything else like that….comparing your ring to the others your friends have is pretty destructive, I would stop that if I could.  And remember, you still need a wedding band, perhaps you have an opportunity to pair your e-ring with a band that compliments it…or a trade in for a stand alone that you prefer.

    Post # 8
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    11412 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I am sorry you feel this way. It sounds really beautiful. It doesn’t sound like its not your taste anymore, just that maybe you don’t love it as much as you wished you did. Seeing so many other rings can def cause this.

    Have you thought of maybe getting a right hand ring for an anniversary? One with another shape that you like?

    Post # 9
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    2903 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Most of the time you can take it back and get a refund and pick a different one……how long have you had it??

    I just returned a diamond for a different one with no hassle. Many of us have had ring regret. But princess cuts are beautiful! (I have one…lol) We would love to see a pic!

     

    Post # 10
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    1784 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Maybe focus on finding a kick-ass wedding band for now?  If you stay unhappy with the ring, you could upgrade for an anniversary.

    Post # 11
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    1623 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I agree that hindsight can be 20/20, but in this siutation I think you should let it go and learn how to fall in love with your ring again.  It’s really a matter of putting it to rest in your mind.  Also….you loved this ring until other external influences came into the picture.  Trust me, Pinterest doesn’t have emotions that will get hurt by you wanting a new ring, but your fiance probably does.

    If I bought my partner an expensive ring of her own choosing and then she told me she changed her mind and wanted a different one, I’d be devastated.  

    Post # 12
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    4680 posts
    Honey bee

    @Jabberwocky:  +1. Upgrading at a later date is always a great option. If you don’t love it in 2 or 3 years, upgrade! 

    Post # 13
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    1784 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    It also might help to give it a good cleaning and make it super sparkly again. 

    Post # 16
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    3360 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think you need to learn to love it for now… but maybe just changing the stone and keeping your setting could be an option. If not now, could be for an anniversary 

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