(Closed) I don't like my FSIL…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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27 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I maybe in an “uneven” situation too! I did a bunch of googling and feel alot better about it. I mnay decide to send everyone down the aisle indvidually so it isn’t as noticeable! If you feel uncomfortable with her in your wedding party, it certainly isn’t worth it!

Post # 4
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2268 posts
Buzzing bee

If you really don’t want her, don’t invite her.

That said, perhaps it could be a chance for the two of you to spend some time together and build a better relationship. 

Post # 5
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317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@peachbaby4008:  To begin with I think that you shouldn’t be worried about having an even number of guys & girls. Your bridal party is about including your nearest & dearest and sometimes that doesn’t balance out to even numbers.  That said, I think it would be a lovely gesture to include your future SIL in the bridal party since she is becoming your family.  i don’t see how she could make herself stand out so much from the other ladies if you select the gowns they wear and Instruct them what color shoes to buy.  As far as hair goes, if you are all getting your hair done together just implement the “no one can have the same style as me” rule.  If she tries to be über differment to intentionally stand out she will only make herself look bad.

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