(Closed) I don’t need this a week before my wedding! little vent :(

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

It honestly sounds like your sister is a little jealous. Her comments were definitely rude but let them go, don’t let her ruin the day for you!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

She is being immature and it sounds like she was a little drunk at the time.  Post a picture on here and we can give you honest feedback about how you look if you want!

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

It sounds like she’s just jealous.  Don’t let her ruin your happiness. It’s not your fault things just worked out for you. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

It might also be that she had doubts about your wedding all this time and was hoping for you to get cold feet or something. If I were you I would ask her for her reasons…. you can NEVER assume that a person is jealous after she acts out ONCE.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

She sounds like she’s being petty and jealous.  I wouldn’t let her comments dictate how you feel you in your wedding dress!

Post # 8
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Honey bee

I agree with the other ladies. It sounds like she is very, very jealous that you are getting married.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree that it sounds like your sister is a little jealous and trying to bring you down. Try not to let it upset you. I’ve had to deal with jealousy from older siblings of both Fiance and myself that really bummed me out after our engagement. It is not fun. I don’t know why the people who love us can’t just be happy for us and supportive!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Don’t let her get to you!

If you are actually having doubts about the way your dress looks, there are a couple of things that might help: avoid salt and alcohol (less bloat = easier hanging, less bunching), get a smoothing compression undergrament (they can be more comfortable than you might think), and try using safety pins to keep the layers down.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2010

She’s totally jealous. I know it’s hard not to take it to heart, but she’s just being cruel and you can’t let her bring you down. I’m sure you look AMAZING in your dress, which is exactly why she put you down. In less than a week you’re going to be married to the man of your dreams, so keep that in mind when your family is being insensitive. 

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