Post # 1
Last night I decided to try on my gown to see what was going on with it. It pulls up in the front and bunches=( I didn’t realize my sister was drnking till I had it on.
I have a very young face, people always think I’m 12….and she kept saying over and over that I look like a kid in a cupcake. wow. thank you so much, i feel s beauiful and excited for my wedding now! Then she went on to say that “she doesn’t trust people that haven’t had they’re heart broken.” Sorry that my first love was “the one.” Do you want me to break up w/ him then get back together and get married as planned? would that win your trust?
She went on and on to my mother and they were talking about me to eachother when i was 5 feet away from them! They were saying that Iwas “abandoning” the family. My sister said something to me that I didn’t hear and I asked “what?” and my mother said i could be more compassionate…exscuse me?! She just said I lookedhorrible in my WEDDING gown! 7 days before my I get married. How the hell am i supposed to react?
Sorry about my long vent. I’m just so upset over this and I’m not the one who should apologize.
Post # 3
It honestly sounds like your sister is a little jealous. Her comments were definitely rude but let them go, don’t let her ruin the day for you!
Post # 4
She is being immature and it sounds like she was a little drunk at the time. Post a picture on here and we can give you honest feedback about how you look if you want!
Post # 5
It sounds like she’s just jealous. Don’t let her ruin your happiness. It’s not your fault things just worked out for you.
Post # 6
It might also be that she had doubts about your wedding all this time and was hoping for you to get cold feet or something. If I were you I would ask her for her reasons…. you can NEVER assume that a person is jealous after she acts out ONCE.
Post # 7
She sounds like she’s being petty and jealous. I wouldn’t let her comments dictate how you feel you in your wedding dress!
Post # 8
I agree with the other ladies. It sounds like she is very, very jealous that you are getting married.
Post # 9
I agree that it sounds like your sister is a little jealous and trying to bring you down. Try not to let it upset you. I’ve had to deal with jealousy from older siblings of both Fiance and myself that really bummed me out after our engagement. It is not fun. I don’t know why the people who love us can’t just be happy for us and supportive!
Post # 10
Thanks ladies! I’m feeling much better. We’re still not really speaking, bt I’m once again extremely excited to get maried on Sunday=) I don’t know what I would do without your support=)
Post # 11
Don’t let her get to you!
If you are actually having doubts about the way your dress looks, there are a couple of things that might help: avoid salt and alcohol (less bloat = easier hanging, less bunching), get a smoothing compression undergrament (they can be more comfortable than you might think), and try using safety pins to keep the layers down.
Post # 12
She’s totally jealous. I know it’s hard not to take it to heart, but she’s just being cruel and you can’t let her bring you down. I’m sure you look AMAZING in your dress, which is exactly why she put you down. In less than a week you’re going to be married to the man of your dreams, so keep that in mind when your family is being insensitive.