(Closed) I don't think I can enjoy my wedding now… what can I do?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so sorry about this mess….

I have no idea what is going on with your sister but please, please don’t let her ruin how you feel about your wedding.

This is suppose to be a happy time for you;

Focus on yourself and your Fiance.

((((((Hugs))))))

Post # 4
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3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

“she got very snobby because a friend of mine who is a licensesed esthetician is doing our make up rather than me hiring someone.”  Um, that’s called LUCKY.  Don’t ever feel BAD about that.

“When she planned her wedding, she was basically a bridezilla.” And she’s also a MOH-zilla.  Consider yourself lucky that you have a much better replacement. Here is the deal.  Some people are just incredibly self-centered and nothing will change it and that is exactly what this sounds like.  I think what you’re doing is focusing on the negative instead of thinking about all the awesomeness that is about to happen. Who cares if you’re 1 sister chose not to come.  Whose loss is it really?  It’s certainly not yours, since you yourself already know what kind of a pain she would likely be.  So.  Would you rather have her there, bitching and taking over your suite, or have a very lovely friend there to emotionally support you as a Maid/Matron of Honor is supposed to?  I think at some point you’re going to have to realize that your sister is exactly as your sister wants to be and trying to make her faults about you or how she is taking away from you is a complete waste of time. 

You have a lot of things to focus on right now and I hope you’ll soon shift to what is important: starting a new life with your wonderful partner, being surrounded by love.  That’s it.  That’s is your #1 focus for the next month.  Get crackin’!!

Post # 5
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1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Aww that really stinks. Have you had a conversation with her about how important she is to you and how upset you would be for her not to share your day with you. If not then talk to her but keep the focus on how much you want her there. First time moms get really wrapped up in their little world with the new baby and sometimes do some nesting( entirely normal). They just look for excuses to not go out so it could be that. My advise is to talk to her.

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