Post # 1
Im feelin so stressed out Im about to cry..
My weddng date was supposed to be June and as of now it still is June but so many things are just starting to fall onto our laps and Im not sure what to make out of it. My dad is now under going heart problems- He was realeased this morning from the hospital thank God but will undergo a heart surgery mayb next month, — Ok OFCOURSE hes my dad and i wish for him good health more then anything- and if i were up to me i wouldnt want a weddin in the first place, but the money he was supposed to pitch in for the wedding, is the amount for the surgery so now im worried ( how selfish am I!!!!! ) what if we cant afford having a wedding now? AND not only that, Egypts really undergoing a Major problem now and some say it migh turn into a civil war- ( I live i n Egypt )– now im all worried about omg what If my Fiance can no longer come cuz of the war and probles and we have to reset another date and I DONT wnt that to happen cuz weve been reschedualing forever and not to mention that this june will be ONE year that we have not seen each other. ITs so absurd and im so upset im seriously tearing up as im writing this.
Post # 3
I hope your dad is ok. Maybe you should fly to him and just have a small wedding somewhere? The wedding doesn’t mean anything – it’s the marriage that is important.
Post # 4
@BackyardLoveBird: agreed. I would ditch the wedding plans now, and work on getting married quick so you guys can be together again. You can always have a wedding later on
Post # 5
My dad is here with us, so Ill be with him of course– its my Fiance whose far away.. Thank you (: I agree wedding isnt important- and I personally wouldnt want one anyway but its my mom whose very headstrong abou this and will feel that im putting her down if I have it any other way..
Post # 6
How would your mom feel about a smaller ceremony now, and a larger celebration when things are in a better place? She can’t want you to postpone your marriage indefinitely if you can’t have a big one, can she? Reading that it occurs to me that of course she can, but I hope she doesn’t! You deserve to have the support of a husband while you’re going through this tough time with your dad.
Post # 7
It would be a good idea but since Im leaving my fam — ( moving to NY with my husband ) obviously its a one time shot for my mom basically. Its like however we have it now is the one time shell experience it basically. I really dont want to prolong our marriage over a wedding- I was thinkign to have a nice get together at home, ( have it well decorated) Open buffet , fancy dress and close people- but I think she would be completely against this idea and wont cosndier it a wedding..