(Closed) I don’t think I could possibly be more upset..

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@FutureMrsY: Tell your grandma that your mom was misinformed and your future family plans are between you and your soon-to-be fiance/husband.

If you feel comfortable, ask your mom why she felt the need to say and and tell her that that part of your life is not her business and not up for discussion.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You could always talk to your grandmother and others you are close to, but even if your mom is spreading lies, it will only be a matter of time (like 9 months) for people to see that she was full of it.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Obviously you have already informed your grandmother that she was given incorrect information.

I would definitely call my mom on her behavior. I would say that my grandmother told me____, that I was very upset with her for giving misinformation  and demand that she not repeat that behavior.

I would ask the she contact anyone she had spoken to including grandma, and  tell them she had mispoken.

Then I would make darn sure I didn’t get pregnant. Anyone who did receive the incorrect informatiion will find out your Mom was lying when you fail to reproduce in 9 months.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@pinkshoes: Agree!

Who cares if everyone thinks you are pregnant, in a few months they’ll realize your Mom is a liar.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would for sure call your mom out on it – I mean, it’s a lie and she knows it. Who does that to their daughter?

I wouldn’t spend too much time stressing about it though – as time goes by and there is no bump or baby announcement, people will realize the rumor is false without you having to do anything.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I agree with the rest of the replies – set the truth straight with your grandmother, but everyone else will see it isn’t true in time anyway.

Given that you have a wedding coming up though, I would probably have a word with your mum – even if it is as simple as joking “hey Mum, why did you tell Grandma I am pregnant – do you know something I don’t know?” just to let her know you wont stand for it.

 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

After all the years (I’m assuming this kind of stunt isn’t the first time your Mom has done this), why does your G-ma still believe her?

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