- 9 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
GOING TO TRY TO KEEP THIS SHORT NOT GOING TO PROMISE THOUGH
My Fiance and I have been together for 4yrs and he has been married twice before. His last exwife and her family were raised by wolves. For the last 4 yrs he has tried to keep us away from each other and I stay away mostly because I know that he has to deal with her for the next 10 yrs. Now, he has 4 kids and I want them all in the wedding except their son together. He is 8 and I have nothing against him. She will not allow him to be in the wedding but my Fiance wants to just get him that day and tell her they are going somewhere and let him be in the wedding without her knowing.
She knows that we are getting married she just doesn’t know when
Now, her whole family haS no respect for anyone. Not for police officers not for the court system NOTHING!! We are going to have 2 off duty police officers at the reception but I know that she will see them there and still get out of the car.
I’m the first real relationship he’s had since they broke up. I blame my Fiance because of the way she acts because everytime the police is called he never press charges so they just let her go…let me tell you some of the things that has happened since we’ve been together.
her and her mom(who is 80 something) showed up at his job going off because he didn’t attend a t-ball game for her son…she lied to him about him being his son and she later told him that he wasnt but he still treats him like its his son. (She has 2 kids 1 is his 1 isn’t) she embarrassed my Fiance the day before at practice so he didn’t go to the game the next day. her and her mom and the little body was trying to fight the security gaurds, which are his employees because he is the Groomsmen, and tried to fight him. all because he didn’t show up to a t ball game.
he’s a diabetic and for his 50th bday he got really sick and was back and forth from the ER to his doctor office. i thought he was going to die i called his family and they drove 6 hrs to come sit with him. his phone was turned off because he was in the ER and his fam had my number. Kids left a msg asking to spend his bday with him but he never got the msg because his phone was off. he had an allergic reaction to the Bridal Party meds and his face was swollen. on the way home from the ER we stopped by his job to get something. he was in the truck waitin on me. she pulled up with a baseball bat trying to fight him because he didn’t answer his phone…he was weak and couldn’t even stand or talk…he was trying to show her the band so she could see that he had been in the hospital but she didn’t care. i called the police and about 6 cars came but she left before they got there. well she came back and jumped out trying to fight me with all those police officers there then her momma pulled up ready to fight too. All because he didn’t answer the phone.
His ex girlfriend took her mom to court because they saw her car at his house waited outside for her to leave an attacked her.
Did I mention her mom is in her 80s!!!
Him and his employees went out for drinks at a club and her mom was there. (SHe is a drunk) We’re on the phone talking and one of the female employees went to the restroom so he was waitin on her because the place is a hole in the wall type of club. well she came out and he walked with her still talking to me on the phone well I guess he wasn’t paying attention because her mom came out of nowhere and slapped the girl. I guess she thought that they were together…they hauled her mom out the club kicking and screaming
my Fiance mom has a bday party every year. She has 9 kids and they all come home for her party including grand kids and great grands. my Fiance and his Ex got into an argument before he left for the party because her son didn’t want to go so she wouldn’t let his son go. He has to get both kids or he can’t have his son. If the her son doesn’t want to go when he wants his son then she doesn’t let his son go. well she kept calling and he wouldn’t answer her phone calls so she drove 3 hrs to his moms house to confront him. Confront him about what you ask? Hanging up on her and not answering her calls after she said his son couldn’t go to the party!! He had already left and she went off in front of his whole family. His sisters and his daughter tried to get her but the men in the family held them back.
Her mom calls his phone at least once a month at 2 or 3 in the morning when she is good and drunk and goes off on him for leaving her daughter and about me being African American…my Fiance is African American too but his ex is Caucasian, don’t know why that is an issue…Its been about 6 yrs since the split and the only reason they got together is because my dumb ass Fiance slept with her the first week without protection and she was already pregnant by someone else and she told him the baby was his so he settled down with her and 4 yrs later when he found out he wasn’t his son she was pregnant again!!
OKAY TIME TO STOP!! WAY TO LONG!! SORRY…
This isn’t even half the stuff that has happened and I know if she finds out her son is at the wedding she will come and get him and I know she will not come by herself and I know she will not be quiet. No one in his family speaks to her and everyone including his daughter has been trying to whoop that ass… I’ll take her on any day but don’t want that kid of drama on my wedding day. I know she might show up any way but I think if her son is there that would give her more of a reason to show up. Almost everyone that is invited to the wedding has seen her and her mom in action or heard about it. I just think lying to her so that his son could be in the wedding is asking for trouble.
SORRY AGAIN FOR IT BEING SO LONG