- 9 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
@MsCoffeeBean: I feel you! I don’t want one personally bc I don’t want my guests taking anymore time from their busy lives for another “party.” The wedding’s enough for me. I’ve expressed how I felt to my Fiance, a couple BMs and my parents… but no one seems to see my point of view.
However, my Fiance did bring up a good point. Having your family or whoever throw you a shower will mean more to them than anything. They want to make it special for you. Having a wedding bigger than the courthouse kinda automatically puts you in a category where weddings aren’t really about “you.” lol. I didn’t want to listen to him, and I still won’t admit, lol, but I see where he’s coming from.